Hum Kitabon Se Itna Door Kyun?

Ek dor tha jab log apna waqt guzarne k liye kitabon ka sahara liya karte the. Jab bare log kehte the k kitaben insane ki behtreen dost hoti hain. Magar waqt guzarne k sath ye shoq bhi logo ka ahista ahista khatam ho giya. Ab log kitaben sirf apni library mein rakh kar bhool jate hain. Pehle log kitabon ko tuhfe (gifts) k tor par bhi ek dosre ko diya karte the magar ab ye dastoor bhi khatam ho giya hai.

Aj kal k bache computer par zayada waqt guzarte hain un k khel (games) bhi computer tak hi mehdood ho gaye hain. Hum ne apne apko kitabon se bohat door kar liya hai. Kyon hum kitabon se dobara dosti nahi kar lete. Jitna waqt hum idhar udhar ki khabrien nikalne me lage rehte hain thori koshish se dobara kitabon ko apni zindagi ka hissa bana sakte hain.

Kitabon se insane ka zehn khulta hai. Wo kitaben jin me tareekh majood hai. Wo hamare ilm me kis hud tak izafa karsakhti hain. Waqt guzarne ka behtreen zarya kabhi kitab hoti thi.

Kitab se insane ki dosti bohat purani hai. Aj kal ki nasal internet k zarye kam waqt me matlab ki maloomat hasil kar lete hain. Chahe tareekh ho ya safarname, chahe aapbeeti ho ya shaariri. Insane ki maloomat ka behtreen zarya yehi kitaben hoti thi.

Agar hum kitabon se isi tarah door rahe to wo waqt door nai jab kitaben sirf library ki zeenat reh jayengi.

TO … DEAR FARAZ ALI… I don’t know if you know me much or not, but Faraz Ali is always known to me as one of kind and helpful friend of my brother. Your one good deed, to take my father to hospital when there was no body to help us out, made me and my family thankful of yours forever. Waking up in the morning with these words “Mariam Faraz Mamo ki death hogai” was really shocking and unbelievable…. For the moment I got out of my mind and all your memories came in flashback… I still remember when I was in class 5, your two swans were always there in our school garden and I use to love teasing them… Every boy in Mohallah calling you Mamo specially Zaini, my little sister who was too much attached with you… Bhai often talked to me about your hobby and love for animals, at time Eid-Ul-Azha, if one uses to have an intolerable bull so the only option left for them was to call out Faraz Mamo... But Alas…! It’s proved today, good people leave early…. It was shocking to here that you have lost your life in a car accident with your three best friends….. Among which you three lost your precious life and the unlucky four is paralyzed now…. My brother’s eyes were filled with tears while telling us about it with words…” Ami abhi rat 1 bajae t m k gaya tha mujse phir abhi kese...” Your face book profile is filled with prayers and love for you from all beloved friends…. syed Tahir Ali says..” Faraz bro, tere jesa dost naseeb walo KO milta hain …” Syed Shahabaz says...” if tears could build a staircase and memories a path… I would walk right up to heaven and bring you back home again... For sometime there are no words … I just can’t believe that you are no more I this world but your memories will always beside me. You were the best friend one could have... Rest in peace my friend…” and last but not eh least… my little sister Zainab ...” Api ab wo bhi hamare abu k pas chale gae haina … apko yad haina wo mujy jab bhi apne sath market lai ka I jate thai to mujhy buaht cheezai dilate thai…” I have no words to define the loss we have…. But here are simple words form ur friends for you… “ To Juda hoa,per teri yad juda na hoi, tanhaiyan lag lag k roi, abhi to buhat lamba safar sath tae karna tha hum nai, abhi is moor p alwida na kehna that um nai….. “ MAY YOUR SOUL REST IN PEACE…AAMEEN?”

A STUDENT OF MANKIND!!!

What does this title mean???

 I know this question is raising in everyone's mind.....

Read it; surely the mystery will b revealed soon!!!

We human, the creatures of MUD arrive in this fast and furious world as a BABY which is just like a new computer hard disk containing zero data at the beginning, but as the time flies; the hard disk starts storing data which is input by its users. Similarly, different things happen in our life .When we arrive as a baby in this world &open our virgin eyes, we have zero data available. But as the hours click by we start storing data by observing the performances of others influencing directly or indirectly us. For an instance, the action of catching something from our small hands; the baby language or as v may call “tote phote alfaz” which we learn, or the "walk" . . .  Opps!! I mean the crawling which we do, are the lessons of the people who surround us..............

The learning process in human life starts from one’s birth and ends with his death...........look around, all the people present in our life can teach us something .Everyone in this world passes through this learning process whether it is the learning of trivial things or the learning of extremely big & important matters like after a breakup (big one!! not easy to do ..... anyways jokes apart back to the topic:p) . It doesn’t matter what others teach us, the basic thing which is need to get in focus is the learning which we get as a Student from others....

What I am trying to convey is the process of learning which we get from others and if we look from this prospect we all are students somehow; I know some learners are reading this too ... be all I am trying to say is that .......... throughout our lives we learn in one manner or other . . .  thus proving to b students, & the people who teach us are our teachers. The mankind keeps us its student till we depart. It is well said that:

“INSAN HI INSAN KO SIKHATA  HEY "

We learn the feelings of love from our relations like teachers, may be parents ,siblings or the loved ones ; learn fear from our looters,  mobile snatchers ,  target killers etc etc..... we can’t calculate from measuring balance how much we learn from others . . . . .but we are learning through & through.  Now look deep inside urself and find out what lessons did u get as a student from others???

Become a good student of mankind....learn every lesson by heart which is being taught to u.... it just requires a little thirst  of learning and observation...it wouldn’t cause you any harm but surely will benefit you.

Sarah Caldwell once said:

“Learn everything u can, anytime u can, from anyone u can. There   will always come a time when you will be grateful you did."

hum larkiyan....

Main ek larki hon aur meri tarha aur bhut se larkiyan sochti hoon gi kay woh kyun paida hoi?? un kay jeena ka maqsad kya hai? Jab hum larkiyan gharo say nikalti hain majbori main yah zarorat main to ghar walo ko itna khuaf kyun hota hain woh itna dartay kyun hain?? jab kay hum ghar say nikaltay hain to hum bhut say logo ki batain sunta hain ,ganday  jumlay suntay hain, gandi nazra parti hain .... jab larkiyan in sab ka samna kar sakti hain to koi acha kam kyun nahi kar sakti....
hum larkiyan kiya akaly kuch nahi kar sakti hai??? hamain kiya kuch karna kay liya larko ka sath kyun chaiya hota hai???hamain akalay koi kyun support nahi karta???jab kay larkyun kay pass to karna ka jazba hota hai,  himmat hoti hai , hosla hota hai, kuch acha karna kay liya achay ideas hotay hain. lakin phir bhi is masharay main akalay larkiyan kuch nahi karsakti hai. wesa to hamara waladain , hamara ustad hum ko yeh sekhatay hain kay agay barhoo, kuch karoo, kuch badloo lakin sirf khena ki had tak us kay bad agar hum kuch karta bhi hain to hum ko dara diya jata hain k HUM LARKIYAN HAIN KUCH NHI KAR SAKTI HAI  , beta halat theek nhi hai, muhal to bhat kharab hai, kuch ho jayain ga , akala nahi jana , ufffffffff yeh batain.......yeh log ek jesa kyun nahi rehtay hain.Na karo to batain or agar galti say kuch karna ka irada bhi kar liya to bhi batain . ab kara to kya karay???? agar in ko hamara sath dena hain to day lakin itna bara bara lecture to na day na jis say himmat he tot jaye. phela khud sekhata hain or bad main inkar kartay hain.  yeh larkiyan itni muskkil kyun ban gaye hai ...is ka ek he hal hai yah to hum in kay agay har man jaya yah phir in ko kuch kar dekhayan or sabit kar day kay hum larkiyan kamzor nahi hain agar kuch karna par ati hain to kar sakti hain woh bhi akala......

Drastic Art of Divine Cooking...!!!

Delicious Kababs... Spicy Biryani... Delightful Nihari... Yummy Pasta and all the mouth-watering tempting stuff ahh... i can't resist and put my hands off them!! But the thing is they are first projected... ohh i mean prepared and cooked!!! I wonder how...?? How merely a piece of beef or poultry could turn into something outstanding and appetizing like Shahi Mutton Qorma, Nargisi Kabab, Handi Gosht, Haleem and the list goes on... I keep wondering and keep eating... There's a saying, "Eat the mangoes, don't count the trees". I actually do it as i don't know how to cook... God help me!!

Hot steam begging mercy to switch off the stove... dancing of oil in the fry pan if anything else interrupts it's privacy... terror of death of food if it is over-heated... sadistic nature of onions to bring tears to one's eyes... Eeyyuu i rather stayed away... In fact stayed happy..!!

Ohh but it doesn't mean that i never tried... I remember once I made Qorma with the guidance of my cousins on my Aunt's place but unfortunately i forgot it too... According to my mum I am clumsy to handle almost anything so she don't have that much stamina to teach me how to cook... Apart from this i have some conditions to learn this drastic art of cooking on which my mum goes mad... :P

Anyways it's absolutely not like this that i am totally nil and can't cook anything...!! Mmm i can make tea, maggi noodles, boiled egg, french toasts and some sandwiches... and yess my specialty... i know it would be inept but i adore to decorate different flavors of jelly on custard... :)

As far as main dishes are concerned neither i am interested nor i think i can project them, the way my mum does!! God help me....

hunton ki muskurahat

Agartum  sar sabz poda na ban sako to sabz nanna munna patta ban jao q k poday ki khubsurtii patto kay dam say qaim hai. Agar patta bhi na ban sako to shabnam ka eik qatra ban jao jo  jhil mil karta howa nanna sa qatra poday aur pattay kay husan ko do bala kar deta hai. Agar eik muskurata howa phool na ban sakoo to us ki mehak ban jao jo mayoos dilo ko naye zindagi aur khushbo say muattar kar day .Agar yeh bhi na ban sakon to eik gareeb kay ghar ka chand ban jao jo kisi andhay ke ankh ka noor ban jao aur usay ujala bakhsho .Agar shahrah-E- hayat main chand na ban sako to anjumanay sehhar ban jao jo bethay howa rahon ko neshanay manzil bana kar un ki pagrri banata hai. Agar pyar kay haseen naghma na ban sako to khiza ka gheet ban jao q kay dhukyaron ko yeh bhi sakoon deta hai. Agar yeh bhi na ban sakoo to zuban ki sheri ban jao .Agar yeh bhi na ban sakoo to murda huntoon ki muskurahat ban jao. aisa na ho kay tum zindagi say bikar guzar jao aur tumharay bad tumhara name na liya jayain




YEH MENA APNI BEST FRND K LIYA LEKHA THA JAB WOH MERA SATH PARHTI THIII 

Diary Piece

Sometimes life seems a little harsh to us when it treats us with some cruel realities, some unpredicted horrors some bitter truths. We curse it; we scream, want to change things but can’t help it. But why we never thank life for bringing sweet bounties in terms of friend’s hand, sister’s hug and family’s joy.

The rush hours of university life taking all day long classes, assignment, my hectic schedule makes me feel that I have grown up. My work my researches have become more prior to me than games, songs SRK who used to be the first crush of my life. Sometimes I feel am I the same person who used to get numb while listening “ ya Rabba le le koi jaan b ager… dilbar pe ho na dilbar pe ho koi asar” J and now feels even lame to turn on the music player.

This makes me feel that time has changed or probably I have grown up or grown BIG.

Ooh wait growing old means I should talk about HSY lawn prints now or Sana Safina’s,  should feel petty  in travelling in Santro or I should feel messy in sitting on the floor simply means I should become \\Materialistc// . But I do none of the above, does that mean I have not grown up?

The trauma is that I don’t know where I stand probably I am no more there where I was standing for ages stubborn, rigid, hard and since I have moved on I am not liking it and call it “Grown Up”. But life tells me in every walk that I have not changed; I am still the same, the one who used to cry most hysterically when Pakistan losses to India, Who gets irritated when hungry, whose breathing drops apart when sees some ones tears. It’s not like that you change if you stop doing some foolish acts; it’s just like that you have realized the harm in being stern.

 You never change its just the time that makes you to adjust with it to think Big to be right.

Lawn Fever

Winter gone and spring season has arrived. Wow! This means summer season will be coming soon and we have to collect different types of lawn. These days everybody is in fever of lawn. Lawn exhibition is the hot topic of the city these days.

Every textile is introducing new collection with the collaboration of fashion designers. When ever you switch your T.V. set, somebody is mentioning now different is our lawn. Every bill board on road side has eye catching prints on it with very well known models. When ever your call your friends the first thing they ask, have you bought that prints? That belongs to that company and the model x.y.z wears with that style.

Have we ever noticed that how fashion has influenced us? With every new lawn arrival, we are rushed to the exhibition, and have to buy so that we are the first one to buy that branded lawn.

Every textile knows how fashion has influenced our lives so that they know how to display their product. Even our ads are very nicely made with attractive accessories which these models carry so our women can’t take their, eye off. These days many actresses are launching their lawns so our women who are great fans of these actresses are crazy to buy their product.

Lawns are the daily wear fabric and there was a time when the fabric was stitched very simply but these days lawn has become very trendy and classic. Very trendy accessories made this fabric very eye catchy. May be some day our women wear this fabric in the wedding occasions.

Famous designer said: 

Lawn is the future pret of Pakistan.

UNFATHOMABLE SEA OF RELATIONS!!!

WILLIAM SHAKESPEARE said:

“All the world is a stage, and all the men and women merely players: They have their exits and their entrance”

 The ASHRAF UL MAKHLOKAT (Humans) have no clue when, where, why and how they are going to perform the role which is scripted by Almighty Allah to them. No one knows what role is assigned to him in this world-stage. They have no idea of their time of arrival or departure, or the act    they’ll perform in future.

When a new character enters….. One can’t judge how much attention he would grab, whom he’ll meet or develop relations with others. The true picture appears with the passage of time.

It’s doesn’t sound easy to let the heart door open for a new stranger, but we HUMANS have a WELCOMING nature. We hesitate to let sum1 enter in our life, but once sum1 enters after resistance we not only welcomed them but also accept their role in our life. We are connected with them through the bonds of relations. These relations are easy to make, more easy to break but hard to maintain as they demand compromise and adjustments. Thus we can say that it is the most difficult job to keep our relations beating ………… like in our daily routine we have to perform different tasks and various roles !!!!!

Maintaining relations is harder …. In order to keep them we have to walk a long way, have to pass obstacles, bear the heated sun rays and freezing atmosphere, fight with the starvation or thrust. Sometimes these hardships lead us on the edge of breaking our relationship but we try to fight it back and retain them so we can move forward distances.

No matter how hard the hurricane or tsunami tries to break the relation wall, we have to strengthen it like a rock or mountain which can stand any natural disaster. It is only death that can break them apart!!!

Relations are the blessing of Allah Almighty which he has bestowed upon us to make us understand the feelings and emotions. We should realize how much relation is important for us …Imagine One’s life without relation, you will find that u don’t have any purpose to live...your life becomes a dark and bleak place which is missing every gloom and glory of light. We should never try to break relation or say good bye to any of them. When we hook ourselves to any, we should not search for the exit path.........

We should try to respect every attained or earned relation because they are the diamond opps!!

In the world-stage- the role and character of each actor is different but they all perform to entertain us…..So we should try to be a little interactive and enjoy every performance with them!! We should Laugh with them, Cry with them, or even Dance with them.........  but shouldn’t leave the theater until the show is over!!!

Because we are grownup….

Freedom means liberty or to be free from domestic values but todays generation has taken this word to fulfill their desires and the most effected relationship with it,  is the relation of children with their parents…

When a mother gives a birth to child she completely devotes her life to him by promising to give her best. Father of a child works hard to have a secure and successful future for him. …they together plan his life, take him to the best school, provide him best education, best clothes, best life… but as the child grows he thinks, he is grown up… can eat by himself, design his clothes, can himself decide about his future and can himself decide what is wrong or what is rite for him because he is grown up and needs freedom…

 Parent’s love their children and gives them freedom to do what they like but children take it wrong when they ignore their parents and don’t listen to them by seeing we are grown up and want freedom…a mother plans to have her daughter in law of her own choice because she thinks she better knows what kind of a girl is suitable for her son but the same son leave her all alone because his wife want to have a separate family because he thinks he is grownup. … a father selects a suitable person for her daughter and gives her all what she needs to start a happy life with her laws, but the same daughter leave his home with a guy who she want to be with because she thinks she is grownup … This is what we give our parents for all that love and care they have given to us because we are grown up ….

A Picture That Speaks Thousands Of Words....!!!

I have got lots to be thankful for... A loving supportive familyy.. good friends.. excellent health.. food on my table.. and most importantly a roof over my head!! Yess... I have lots to be thankful for... Shukar Alhamdulillah!!! But the sadist part is not everyone can say that... There are some people, in fact many billions of others who don't even have shelter or a source to nourish their appetite or even a piece of cloth to cover themselves....

Doesn't the irony hit you hard??? While these children are searching for scraps of food... someone is angry on late pizza delivery, while these children are sitting on piles of garbage to find something useful for their survival... somewhere someone is not satisfied and thankful even sitting in an air-conditioned office, while these children are enduring the hardships of life... someone is diminishing his wealth in partying and clubbing!!!

My heart literally sank on these terrible situations of the endurers.... Why there is such an inequality..?? Is this the game of life..?? These heart-wrenching scenes are not just an other picture... these are the actual lives behind these photos...!!! This rawness of the situation is real... Their need.. emptiness.. hardships.. endurance.. sufferings are all real... They really struggle to survive, not knowing any better..!!

Everything is acutely put into perspective when you realize the level of poverty present in this world and what true suffering really is... Hopefully you feel lot more grateful for the things you actually have..!! Hopefully you will be less disobedient towards Almighty after realizing all the blessings He has shower upon you..!!

As far as this extreme poverty is concerned... These people are looking right at us, so why don't we all open our hearts and minds a little more... give a little more and care alott more...!!!

May Almighty bless them with His countless blessings and make the path of life easier for them... Ameen...!!

Kia Hum Mohazzab Shehri Hain?

Hum ek mohazzab moashre (society) me rehte hain, is liye hum par kuch iklaqi zimadariyan bhi aaid hoti hain. Is mulk k shehri hone k naate, hamare jo faraiz hain un ko poora karna hum par farz hain. Agar apne charon taraf nazar dorrain to har aadmi koi na koi qanoon torta hua nazar a raha hota hai. Is mulk ko apni jageer samajh kar log jis tarah se qanoon shikni karte hain us se kam uz kam bahar ki duniya k log hamare mohazzab hone par shak zaroor karte hain.

Hamare atraf me aise beshumaar log milen ge jo khud ko acha shehri sabit karni koshish karte hain magar bohat choti si baat par qanoon torna buri bat nai samajhte. Kia hamare yahan line bana kar bill jama karaya jata hai? Kai signal ki light hari (green) hone par hi gaariyan chalti hain? Kia hum bijli chori nai karte? Kia hum apni galiyon ko saaf karne ki koshish karte hain? Kia hamari deewaron par ishtihar (ads) lagana zaroori hai? Kia hum ek dosre se aage nikalne k liye over take nai karte? Kia hum apne ghar ki taqreebat (functions) me halki awaz me gane nai laga sakte? Kia kabhi hum ne ye socha k hamari in harkaton se kisi ki dil azari to nai ho rahi?

Kia ye hamari iklaqi zimmedari nai hai k kisi maazoor ko sarak paar karane me us ki madad karen? Ya agar zebra crossing par kuch bache sarak par karne k intezaar me khare hon to hum apni gari ki raftar kam kar den? Ya kisi buzurg ko bus me apni jagah bethne k liye den de?  Kai hamare under itni ikhlaqi jurrat nai k kisi ghalti par us ki nishan dahi karen? Kia kabhi ache shehri hone k naate sarak par hone wale haadse me hum ne kisi ki madad ki? Ye hamara almiya hai k hum behis ho chuke hain. Hum mohazzab moashre me rehte zaroor hain magar mohazzab hain nai.

Hum se hamari achi baaten magrabi duniya ne apna li hain. Apne mulk me wo log kisi kism ki qanoon shikni nai karte. Sab log apna farz samajh kar apni zimmedarion ko pora karet hain. Kash hamare under bhi ye ehsaas jag jaye k ye mulk hamari jageer nai balke jannat hai. Yahan par rehte hue apne parhe likhe hone ka saboot den. Shayad hamari koshish hamare mulk ko badal de.  

Being Hyderabadi

My father's as well as my mother's family originally belong to 'Hyderabad Daccan', so being born in a hyderabadi family I am a true blood hyderabadi.

After visiting Hyderabad Daccan twice I've become a 'Pakki Hyderabaddan'. I love and enjoy being hyderabadi, the accent, the cliche lines, the food, customs.. everything!

Hyderabadis speak Urdu but in a different accent that seems a bit funny too but I feel no shame doing it.I usually don't speak hyderabadi in my friends circle but I automatically start speaking when my surroundings are purely hyderabadi. I love my nani saying ''maathi miley'', ''matti ke mutkuley'' (i don't know what does that really mean) and ''jaaando'' (dafa kro) but I love it though. And I love my cousins living in hyderabad saying after a long time conversation ''kya miyaann? kidhar tou bhi ghayab hen ajkal?" and "yeh tou ekdum kiraak ich hogya! (its crazy)".

And how can I forget the food? the so very famous hyderabadi food basically "Hyderabad ki Shaan". The hyderabadi biryani, mirchi ka salan, bagharey baigan, khubani ka meetha and the mouth watering list goes on. Every single dish of hyderabadis is "Khatti" or you can say that "hum khattey pe zinda hen! :D But seriously I can't imagine my food without imli (tamarind) in every salan.

Now, some of the hyderabadi habits.. 

Referring to some past incident no matter how old.. it will always be "parso ki baat hai". Doesn't matter if you're having Student Biryani "achar" (pickles) tou phr bhi zaruri hy! Having breakfast at 7 am eating chawal salan! :D And in every single hyderabadi family there will be a nani or dadi having dunya bhar ka bojj on their heads though they have nothing to do with it!

I would just say that hyderabadis are insane and awesome and full of life and I love being one of them. I'll surely say that you can take me out of hyderabad but can never take hyderabad out of me!!

Now this is so like my hyderabadi mom! :D :D

Mazaar-e-Quaid... Yaa Jalson Ka Muqaam

     

Pakistan main mazaaron per mukhtalif jalsay or mailay lagay retay hain thora bohat farq kay saath, lakin tamam mailon or jalson kay rung yaksa hotay hain magar Pakistan kay Baani Quaid-e-Azam Muhammad Ali Jinnah kay mazaar kay jalson ka samaa he kuch alag sa hota hai. Jaisay kay Quaid-e-Azam ne Pakistan main jadeed islami nizaam ka parchar kiya tha laikin us kay bar'aks un ka mazaar par khulay asmaan kay neechay aurton ka mukhtalif harkaton say ashna hona sharam kay muqam say kam na tha.

Mazar-e-Quaid say muraad bani-e-Pakistan Quaid-e-Azam Muhammand Ali Jinnah ki aakhri araam gah hai jis ko hamaray siyasi hukmarano nay apnay faiday kay liye jalsa gah bana diya hai, jahan Imran Khan, Maulana Fazul Rehman, Pervez Musharraf or sab say baray Altaf Bhai jin kay jalsay ka to koi jawaab he nahi. Siayasat main to jalson ka, railiyun ka or dharno ka trend he chal gaey hain. Wesay to yeh trend koi naya nahi hai kafi purana he chalta araha hai, lakin ab jis siyasi leader ko apna jalsa kaamyab karwana hai to Jinnah baagh say achi jaga kaha milay gi... Ji haan yeh who he Jinnah baagh hai jis ko hum QUAID-E-AZAM ka MAZAAR khetay hain.

IMRAN KHAN nay apnay jalsay main kaha k yeh kisi tsunami say kam na tha to doosri taraf ALTAF HUSSAIN nay kaha ke ‘YEH ITNA BARA JALSA HAI KAY TAMAAM SIYAASI JAMAAT MIL KAR BHI ITNA BARA JALSA NAHI KAR SAKTI HAIN” unhon nay to khaas tor par Aurton kay liye jalsay ka ahtemaam kiya... jis main Aurtain dance karti hoe nazar aaen jin ko apni izzat ka, na apnay ghar baar ka, na apnay bachon ka koi khayal tha. Yeh wohi Aurtain hain jin k liye Napoleon nay kaha tha kay "TUM ACHI MAAEN(mother) DO, MAIN TUM KO ACHI QOUM DONGA" kya yeh he woh maaen hain jin kay liye Napoleon na yeh mutaalba kiya tha. Kya yeh apni aulaad ko achi tarbiyat de sakti hain??? jis ko apna hosh na ho woh apni aulaad ki acchi parwarish kya karen gi? Afsoos hota hai yeh tamasha dekhtay hoay kya koi in ko rooknay wala nahi hai?

Ay meri qoum kay naujawano! Apna waqt barbaad na karo kay guzra hoa waqt phir wapis nahi ata. Ay meri qoum kay buzurgon! Apni nasihat bhari zubaan band na karo, kaheen aisa na ho kay yeh band zubaan hamaray liye tabahi ka baa'ez na ban jaey. Ay meri qoum ki maaon or behno! Apni azmat ki hifazat karo, aap ki azmat hamari baqa hain na k jalso ki shan……!!!!!

VIEWS ON MAYA KHAN SCANDLE....:

Sana Siddiqui:

A well-known morning show anchor, Maya khan was hitting the high ratings for her show before doing this indecent act of catching couples in a public park having a mic and camera with group of aunties. But her immoral attitude turned the tables of her success even she had accomplished things in the past but it’s a fact that a single unintentional mistake can bang up every thing though what Maya did was all planned.

Intruding the privacy of others, harassing them, demanding affirmation for being present at a public place is reprimanding. This could endanger their lives even if they were paid actors. This was done in a country where honor killings are so common and extremists take quick notices on such issues. Such acts should be condemned and discouraged from the grass root level. Sana Siddiqui:

Shadab Shareef:

Subha sawerey maya k sath morning show ki host maya khan aj kal ghirey hai media k bundo se ,apney channel se na sirf nikale gey bilkuly court main trial ka samna bhe ker rahe hai ...wajah hai un ka park main jakey couples ko capture or zaberdasti kisi ki lyf main interfere kerne ka act, pehle to hum sab sirf is he pehlu ko jantey they; mager kamran khan show main aney k bad maya khan ney is bat ka inkhsaaf kiya k jitney bhe couples ko capture kiya sab k sab  paid acter or actress , jitney logo ney is show ko dekha un k dil o dimagh pey aik dhamaka toh zaroor houe hoga. Us show main jo houa who sab kuch drama tha..... aik live tv show kerne waley na piad actre ko bola k yeh sab capture kiya tha .... sare awam ko bewaqoof banaya sirf apney programs ki trp ko barhwa dene k liye ..ager un ko unki pehle ghlate....kisi ki personal life main interfere kerne ki ghlate maaf bhe kerdiya jaye toh un ki dosri ghalte jis main unho ney apney chahney walo ko bewaqoof banaya ....us ghalte ko kaise maaf kiya jae.???

jaise beej boya wahe katna perta hai

un ko shayd is bat ka andaza nahee tha k un k couples wala act unhey itna bhare par jae ga....... ager un ko awaam ka talkh reponse nahee milta to yeh haqeeqat kabhi pase parda nahee hoti k sach ka charcha ker k is main jhoot ki kitne milwata ki jate hai .... jo sabq unho ney diya shayd he paksitani awaam bhol paye gey ab to her live show dekh k yeh ehsas hoga k kiya yeh waqi sab real hai........... yah tyar kiya houa aik drama ?????

Shadab Sharif

Rabbia Inam :

 Maya khan k is issue main itna bara program nhi rkhna chaie tha kui k ye ghalat hain kui k maya khan ani show kar kai 500 logo ko dikhaya to kamran shahid nai us issue ko 1000 logo kai samani la k khara dia . maya khan nai apme show main jo bhi kia wo ghalat tha magar usai itna uchalna nhi  chaie tha or wo bhi ek esa issue jis ka na to koi sar tha na hi pair. Is mulk main or bhi buhat sai ese ahem masail hain jin main nazar dalna hamre lie zarori hain na k ye esai fazool issues..

Mariam Abbasi :

Maya khan ek mashoor host or anchor person reh chukii hain jo k na sirf pakistan main bul kai dunya mian or bhi kai mumalik main apne kam or hunar ki wajah sai pasand ki jati hain… laikin unkai ek show nai unka pora career barbad kar dala….larkai larkio ko parks or public places main onair dating krte hoe pakarna or pori dunya k samne kardena beshak naehli ka saboot hian liakin mera sawal awam sai ye hain k maya khan 2 saal sai wo program kar rhi thi tab kisi nai awaz kui nhi uthat, us ek show k bad hi kui is issue ko itna utha lia gaya kai jo bandi aasman main shan sai rehti thi uski pori zindagi ki mehnat ko bhula kar usai zameen amin phaink dia…. Mana k unho nai jo kia wo ghalat tha laikin is mulk mai or bhi buhat sai ese masail hain jin main hamain awaz uthane ki zarorat hain…. or mujhy nhi lagta kai kamran shahid jese bashaoor or kabil anchor personalities ko ese issues ko hype dai kar shows karna zaib deta hain…

Hirah Siddiqui :

The apology by maya khan was a drama or not is later question to be asked firstly what we need to know is what kamran shahid doing was just for the rating of his program. there was no need to invite maya khan on awam ki adalat when the issue was sorted out. the journalists now need to grow up and stop doing yellow journalism for trp's. secondly what ever maya khan did was surely a violation of media ethics it does allow us to get in to any ones personal life but what we did was the same violation, i dun think this things required such a repercussion the only thing what had to b done was PEMRA action as they took it. the matter shud have been ended or closed.

Hira Zaheer :

Being a part of a popular morning show I doesn’t have a single clue that how an anchor like Maya Khan can do such an unethical and outrageous thing??

The story starting from the haunting of the couples till the tears that were shed in Kamran Shahid show… What an inept stuff it was..!! really hats off Maya Khan!! You deserve a standing ovation!!! Firstly, if the actors were paid, you did a really pathetic job by chasing foolishly after them!! And by the way I don’t think that all the couples over there were paid, accept the two of them you invited on Kamran’s Show. What about the others?? Where are they?? The couples that were blindly running away from you, were they all paid too?? If yes, then what a deceivious acting it was I must say!

Ok, forget all this! What about your own reputation?? Your own image?? Your mood strikes to tell the truth after a couple of weeks on Kamran’s show?? Why not on the very next day when you were badly criticized?? Why not the day when you were fired??

There are many questions yet to be answered…..

Saba Tahir :

Maya khan nai jo bhi kia wo ghalat tha kui kai ye apka rite nhi hain k ap kisi ki personal life main interfere kare kui k ya na to sirf ethics k against hian bul kai media k rules kai against bhi .. or agar maya khan nai fake logo ko apne sath rkha to ye unka farz tha k wo awam ko is bat sai agah kare or agar unho nain nahi kia to unho nai media k rules ki khilaf warzi k

OBL a ghost or a REAL!!

Nowadays the most burning international issue has been the operation that killed Osama bin laden put by the American Central Intelligence Agency. The American president Barrack Obama said that his body was buried in the sea as it is Muslim’s Holy tenant but can you believe it that US who gave such an awful death to the dictators like Muammar Gaddafi and Saddam Hussein would have let go OBL’s dead body that easily. Osama bin laden was not among these dictators or monarch but was the one who was accused of giving the most horrible tag line to American Media on September 11, 2001 “ America under Attack” by demolishing Empire States building the tallest tower of that time. He was one of the most wanted fugitives of FBI, and American government offered a reward of $25 billion on his head.  

Can you believe that a person who was alleged perpetrator of 9/11 attacks that destroyed the world trade center and damaged parts of pentagon can be that easily forgive and forgot. Not really!! Laden was killed in an operation by American Central intelligence Agency in Pakistan and later was dumped in the sea. How realistic is that?

Does all this sound this simple?

That American force conducted a secret operation of five hours within another territory by violating the UN charter, not only this but also did not even show any DNA report of the most wanted terrorist of the world.  This all is hard to be believed.

OBL as I feel was a ghost whom USA used to bring world into another war called “The Islam against the West” as it was predicted in “Clash of the Civilizations” of Samueles .P Humington. One of the evidence of this can be the documentary “lose change” which does not only reveal the hidden truth of 9/11 but also tells that abolition of such a big and ironed building was not possible by the plane crash and if this happened that it must have caused a mass destruction in the densely congested area of New York City.

What I carved out of this is USA is supposed to call back his forces from Afghanistan by the end of this year. The American Government to win their people needs to showcase a big victory so that they can assert that their years on war on terror are not wasted as it was wasted in Iraq war in search of WMD (Weapon of Mass Destruction). And the victory could not be bigger than the dead of Osama Bin Laden in my view Osama was killed in late 2007, 2008 when heavy bombing was done in Northern Areas of Pakistan and Afghan border and its declaration was procrastinated just for the right time. Now the American President used it as his triumph card. So they can prolong their war in search of Oil.

JOYFUL STUPIDITY A PART OF LIFE!!

Yayy!! I drive a tractor in the busy road of “SADDAR”……. BUMP!! My dream balloon is busted with the needle of morning clock!!!

Oh my wish is not fulfilled in reality…. The butterfly in my stomach vanishes because the reality is different. The heart pounding from joy settles in its place again and the sheepliess smile touches my lips. What was I wishing ……..silly me!!!

 Sometimes our heart cries out to try something unusual!! Our intellect clearly indicates that what we are wishing for is ridiculous but our hearts wants to go crazy and perform this stuipdeous act KIUN K YEH DIL KIS KI SUNTA HAI??

Everyone in their life wants to try something unusual; something awkward at least once in their life, whether it is a wish to ride a bike wearing ABYA, to drive a car with horse pulling it. These things sound stupid….. But these stupid things keep the flame of enjoyment burning in our life……

I can truly understand …..These awkward wishes and desires donot tally with normality … but who cares! Do you???? I know that this does not sound a wish of normal people….it is up to us whether we choose stupidity or normality????

Wishes and desires have no limitations like mobile night packages….. The wish is a wish and the desire is a desire.You can reject ur heart’s wish or desires but u can’t change it. If u wants to do something stupid what does it costs u ….. Nothing precious just giggles…………… so what is the harm in doing that …DO IT!!!

These stupid wishes don’t cost u million or trillions of money …but the joy or enjoyment u gets by making them reality …….is worth than infinite money.

GUYS I think we should try to do something totally stupid once in our life time…….. WHAT SAY YOU????

ENJOY EVERY STUPIDITY……….. BECAUSE STUPIDITY IS AN ACT THAT KEEPS ONE MENTALLY YOUNG: P

Stop this Humsafar-ing...!!!

Wou humsafar tha... These are the words on every tongue... Anyways that's not a bit surprising because today is saturday...!! The so-called "Humsafar Day"....!!! :-/ Humsafar.. Humsafar.. Humsafar...!!! Thank God it is finally finished!!! Ajeebbb...!!! Craze of our youth... want to see the glimpse of this craze..?? Just log in to Facebook you will surelyy be over-loaded with this crap of Humsafar..!! :P

Yesterday my aunt boarded off for USA and she was like, "Haww.. Kal humsafar ka last episode nahin dekh paoun gi..!!!" Loll... I mean give me a break...!! What is so unusual about this drama?? I would rather watch POGO instead..!! :P

What makes "Humsafar" all the rage?? What was so special in it?? It was the typical love-trio like others... Saas-bahu rivalry... A tale of a poor-little-girl in a big, rich home.. and a hitler saas..!!

Ohhh and please do let me know why everyone thinks that "ASHER" is a super-hero!!!?? bus theek hee hai.. :P i don't think the leading role of hero was that much attractive, the way all girls call out, "hayeee Asher". Infact it seems like a woman was stuck in a man's body!! Shaq, shaq and shaq!! And weeping too... That was tau is hobby!!! :P

C'mon get a life, there are so many happie and lively things around us and you guys are sticked to the saas-bahu type drama..!! It's good k it got popular as it is a Pakistani drama but there is a limit..!! Don't make it that much essential like oxygen!!

The thing i would admire about this drama is the title track which was really catchy and deep... Singer Quratulain Baloch is excellent, her voice tugs at the heart string.. Apart from this i don't know why you guys are so madlyy entangled in itt...!! Ab khatam hugaya naa, ab koi mujhey humsafar humsafar kerta hua nazar naa aye..!!! :P

I know my all friends are Humsafar lovers..!!! God bless me for writing this..!!! xD

Zindagi Ka Aitabar Nahi ….

“ khala ye kitna bolti haina, please Nasheela apni ye zaban chale wali speed zara hath chale main lagao”

Ye jumla main or meri khala hamesha hi us k barai main kaha kartai thai . Nasheel, 24 saala khoobsurat or khoobseerat larki thi, jisai Khuda nai har naimat sai nawaza tha siwai dolat kai. Ghareeb gharanae sai taluq rkhne wali ye larki ek ese hunar sai malamal thi jo k na sirf is k ghar ki rozi ka zariya banta tha bul k uski acahnak maut ka sabab bhi ban gaya.. …. Nasheel dulhano ko mehndi lagaya karti thi or itni khubsurat mehndi k jisai lagti wo yhi dua mangtai thai kai is mehndi ka rang kabhi na utrai ….per kon janta tha k jis mehndi ki wajah sai wo sheher bhar main mashahoor thi wohi mehndi uski jan lai lai gi……. Nasheela nai 12 saal ki umar main hi behtreen mehndi lagana shuro kardi thi or itnae arsai main najane kitnai logo kai hath uski mehndi sai khubsurti ki bheer charhai. per najane usai kiski nazar usai kha gai. Is larki ki ek bat buhat ajeeb thi k wo sab ko to buhat shauk sai mehndi lagati thi per usnai apne hath sai kabhi khud apne hath p mehndi nhi lagai. Wo hamesha is bat sai chira karti th k wo u khud ko mehndi lagae. Per han marne sai 3 ghantai pehle usnai zindagi main pehli bar khud apne dono hatho mian mehndi lagai or laal jora pehn kar tayar bhi hoi. Us k ghar wale sab hairan bhi hoe or jab us sai pocha to us nai yhi kaha k pta nhi kui laikin bas dil kia to lagali, laikin afsoos y koi bhi nahi janta tha k us kai hatho mai lagne wali ye pehli mehndi us ki zindagi ki akhri mehndi banjae gi,…. Bas wo mehndi laga k jab laiti to us k bad ankh wapis nhi khol pai or hamesha k lie hi sogai…… kia guzri hogi uski maa pe, jis ki jawan beti hansi khushi achanak hi ue dunya sai chali gai, kis guzri hogi uskai bhai per jab usnai apni jawan behen kai janzai ko kandha dia hoga…… mujhy us larki ka hasta khailta chechra nahi bholta jab wo ahista ahista mehndi kai khubsoorat naqsh hamare hatho main utarti thi or hum uski sust raftari sai chir kar usai kuch kuch na zaroor kehtai thai …. Wakai zindagi ka aitabar nhi …… 

Always be Positive

Enjoy your life the way you like. The life has so many shades, it all depends on you how you react. May be someday you have to suffer but if you have positive attitude, you will recover from it. For example, you can see half glass of water it depends on you either it is half empty, this is your negative side of mind but if you see the glass half filled, you are a positive person.

Negative thinking is always the major of DISPUTES, so try your level best to avoid it and always think positive. May be your problems are bigger than your thoughts but it depends how you tackle with these problems either with your negative attitude or your positive attitude. Your positive attitude helps you in solving these problems very nicely. Your positive side can help you in every aspects of life. It enhances your decision power, making your personality stronger.

 Negativity produces poisonous enzymes which react very bad effects on your body and can destroy your personality and your negative behavior causes very bad impact in society. Your positive attitude makes you a humble and even a better person who can handle complicated situations very nicely and easily. Your positive energy makes you stronger not only your mental level as well as your body, so that you have the power to fight with every kind of hurdles which you have faced in your life.

There is wise quotation the plus symbol is made with a minus symbol. So all negative can be shaped as positive. The only requirement is positive attitude. So make sure when there is difficulty in your life, your behavior and your attitude should always be positive and this will become your great achievement.