28 February 2012

Dreams of Gold

"Dream come true, if you have a dream go for it and get it".
Sharmeen Ahmed Chinoy Pakistan's First Oscar Winner.

How great lady She is!! and I, my dreams had changed with every phase of my life. When i was four years old  i wanted to be a doctor when i started studying it i realized a person who gets numb and faint if see tears and blood cant repair the masses that was probably not my piece of cake.

Time passed and while playing cricket with my brothers i found cricket skills in me and started dreaming to be a cricketer but poor conditions of women in Pakistan made me quit that dream also. Life moved on and it made my heart believed that
'kuch b kar sakte hain ap"

At the age of 14 while watching Wimbledon finals between Sareena Williams versus Maria Sharapova  i started idealizing Maria Sharapova and my idealization become so strong that i started dreaming to be a tennis star lol i started working for it, playing it day and night and with every passing day, with every swat it became my passion, Passion to play with my icon for once <how fool i think now :)> 

Every time i watched her playing i used to cherish her every forehand, backhand victory shot and used to cry with her, for her every loss < so damn stupid i was :P > time again passed it never stops for anything anyone though, and i realized that it could not be it i cant go to Wimbledon and play with the greats i needed to have strong playing background or at least playing skills for that which is God gifted and i had not have any of it. 
< poor me >

Life moved on and my dream again changed and till now it is the same< Shukar > and it is to be the voice of mango people of our country.Bringing Oscar in Pakistan is like a dream of an Utopian empire while watching Sharmeen holding the Oscar statue in her hand made me teary and my heart said that you should have a dream and what else you have to do is go in search of it, no matter what circumstances you face what life brings just keep walking on the path of your dream and find it if you don't achieve it you get "experience" and if you get it you get the life with wings. 

If Sharmeen can do it why cant you that's what my heart said to me and i thought it should be shared with every Pakistani girl that if you had tears in your eyes when you saw her with trophy then go for your dream, If She can do it why cant YOU? :)


26 February 2012

HEART BREAK IS NOT A HEART ATTACK !!!!


Dil chahata hai ,arey yar yeh dil hamesha he kuch na kuch kiun chahta hai……… HEART is very “DEMANDIING”. When it sees something it demand for!!! For example when eating “BIRYANI” it demand for COKE or seeing ALTO in the garage it demand for MERCEDES …….. When its demand  are fulfilled it bounces with joy and vice versa it yearns just like a  fragile glass………….a small hit can break itt, so one must be careful while treating it!!!
Breaking of glass depends upon the intensity or power with which the stroke has been short and hits the heart glass. It may be like Shahid Afridi “SIX STROKE” or Sachin Tendulkar  “slow and steady shorts”, both create damage small or big no matter!!! Various people adopt different things to avoid the pain or to provide healing to the pain which is caused by the stroke………….they start listening depressing Sad songs and ghazals, start taking more sleep, laziness makes a SHELTER in them , they prefer loneliness instead of gatherings etc. they disguise their grief in laughters ….Different things has been done by different people according to their WILL, NATURE  and CHARACTER..
These SAD songs, yearning for loneliness, spitting SALTY water from Eyes, etc  “ HELP THEM TO AVOID THE PAIN”, thinking so……. they try to get “RELEIF OR SAKOON”. But By doing all this they can’t get rid of it.
C’mon yar!! Give a boosting punch to “UR SELF”….. and remind “URSELF” that u are not only one who’s Heart is break. Every human experiences heart break once in their life time.
 Time is a great Healer …..it is the best medicine for pain!!! But more important than Time is YOU” . “YOURSELF”…. You are passing  through a heart break not a HEART ATTACk… I know it HURTS but it doesn’t kill u…..
ONLY u are the one who could HELP “URSELF” …with a joint partnership of “YOU” and” TIME”.
SO C’mon:
GIVE A PLASTER TO UR HEART….
INJECT THE MEDICINE OF TIME……
THE SYRUM OF PAIN FIGHTING BY URSELF………
IF BACTERIA ATTACK AGAIN KEEP THE FIGHTING DOSE INJECT AGAIN……
YOU CAN DO ITT!!!!!!
NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE …….







Dark Side.....!!!!!!

Life is not a bed of roses or you can say it's not a roadside to just pass by... Life is hard... It is excruciating... One should have to endure... to suffer... Life is like climbing a huge mountain... While crossing it sometimes you will feel the atmosphere happening... Sometimes different kind of small or big rocks will come between you and your destiny... And sometimes you will be extremelyy tired of the long lasting journey...!!

In this journey, the traveler... the one who is enduring suffers deep inside... Everybody in this world have some kind of scar in his/her personality... A shattering phase in his/her life... The Dark Side...!!!

The dark side of an individual eats him alive... It causes destruction inside his inner world... Time passes and if an individual is not able to overcome his dark side, it becomes a non curable pain and an individual got badlyy entangled in itt.. Because slowlyy that becomes the theme of your life...!!

If a girl like me could overcome... If a girl like me shed the light on the dark side of my personality.. The girl who was always scared of everythingg... the girl who felt extreme shyness while talking to someone even with her closest companions... the girl who feared even in coming in front of anyone... the girl who started trembling if anyone just looked her even for few seconds...!! It was just because i am an average looking girl or you can say below average....!!! My whole childhood rusted  and strangled in this complex..!! Goddd... That was an inept thinking of mine... Unintentionally i was disobedient to Almighty!!

The thing is if i can overcome it... Then why can't you?? Why can't everyone else??? You can... You surelyy can!!!! The first thing... Don't deny it!! A dark side is something that everybody has and it's part of your personality that has a continuous influence... Don't let your dark side dominate you!!! If we are not careful, this shadow aspect of our personality can destroy our dreams and thwart our attempts to succeed in life...

Step forward... Forget everything that holds you back... Live each and every moment of your life... this one is your life!!! your time!!! choice is yours whether to live like a prisoner or like the way u love..!!!
Stay Blessed.... :)

24 February 2012

Fantasy mirrors desire, Imagination reshapes it!!


Fantasy
Somewhere hidden in the childhood of every person are fairy-tales. Every girl dreams of being Cinderella or Snow white and every boy wants to be Robin Hood or the famous prince Charming. When it comes to my fantasy or my dreams its kind of difficult to explain. I never thought in my imaginations being with Edward Cullen or my prince coming on a white horse to take me far far away to his land. Never even fantasized myself of being with John Abraham (the coolest celebrity in Bollywood). The movie which fantasized me the most is "Ice Princess”. The story of a high school tomboy who transforms into a "Swan”. She was very creative and an art deco. Brainy Casie Carlyle has never quite fit in the school geeks and caught between her fantasies of becoming a championship figure skater. Twisting and turning like a skate prO has always been the biggest fantasy of my life. I like the character of Casie Carlyle because of her unique style, fair colour, tall, smarty pants, sneakerr on and nerdy goggles to go with that. The movie become more appealing when she starts skating besides her educational career and tries hard to get over the international skating championship in town, when she finds her self competing against the best to make it into the championship circuit and become a real "Ice Princess”. I always wanted to feel the joy and jol in the middle of the rink (place for ice skating) in lite blue short dress high neck having diamond ties on it, wearing dark blue blazers moving here and there swiftly on the music beats. Ahh...it feels absolutely fantabulous to be like Casey Carlyle. Whenever i watch this movie, i smile sometimes and smile changes into a snicker and often this snicker turns into a burst of laughter with pleasure.    Casey Carlyle brings out the simplest beauties in her dancing like the dawn like the first day moon or the rainbow among the clouds.

DOWRY
What is dowry? Why it is becoming increasingly common in Pakistan..?? Do we ever think who the culprit behind this curse of the dowry is? In olden times family nobility was preferred and people used to consider how religious and modest the girl is! Now people see status and wealth no matter whether it came from fair or unfair means.
According to Qur’anic principle eating someone else's money is prohibited. Unjust demands of dowry are also assessed in this context. There is no concept of demanding anything without payment, the Qur'an says:
"Do not eat each other's money unfairly".
On another occasion the Qur'an says,
"O believers! Consume not unjustly property of one another"(Al-Nisa verse 29)
so it is clear that the Qur'an does not approve of unjust demands of a heavy dowry. If a girl's parents want to offer something to their daughter then it is permissible. But the groom or his family can never demand anything or force the bride's family to give dowry, it comes under a type of bribe and bribery is not allowed in Islam. As according to one hadith,
"One, who takes a bribe or gives a bribe, both will go to hell".
 There is no harm for giving the brides gifts on her wedding for her home. The growing numbers of daughters are staying unmarried simply because the parents are not able to meet the demand of the groom’s family. Marriage which is something sacred should be made as simple as possible.
Our holy prophet (P.B.U.H) says, “The most advantageous nikah (marriage) is the one which is the easiest.”
The practice of dowry among ignorant Muslims is a result of the influence of the evil practices of the society they live in. Islam does not put any financial burden on the father of the girl. A Muslim father is told to get her daughter married away in a most simple ‘Nikah’ ceremony solemnized by a ‘Qazi’ (priest) in a mosque, witnessed by his close relatives and friends then why we people forget our golden teachings of Islam and making our life’s miserable…??? Think and take step from your place..!!!


23 February 2012


Zindagi Naqabil e Bharosa

Zindagi jis k liye insane itni jiddojehed karta hai kabhi kabhi kitni naqabil e bharosa hoti hai. Hum sari zindagi koshish karte hain k hamari zindagi me sab acha ho magar hota wohi hai jo hamara Rab chahta hai. Insan zindgai bhar irade banata hai, lekin Allah Taala ka ek faisla us k iradon ko khatam kar deta hai.

Hazrat Ali Karam Allah Wajho ka farman hai “mene apne iradon k tootne se apne Rab ko pehchana”. Kehte hain samaan so (100) baras ka pal ki khabar nai. Maslan Pakistan me aane wala zalzala, kia kisi ko khabar thi k ek pal me zindagi youn badal jayegi. Wo zindagi jo kabhi itni khubsoorat thi ek lamhe me itni badsoorat ho jaye gi.

Insan apni fitrat se majboor hai. Har pal wo agle lamhe ki or aane wale kal ki tayari karta hai. Apne or apne bachon k mustaqbil ki fikar me ghulta rehta hai magar wo khud nai janta k us k khud k saath zindagi kia khel khelne wali hai. Emaan ki mazbooti or Allah pe bharosa, insan ko is qabil banata hai k wo apna har kam karne k bad us ka sila Allah pe chor de. Allah pe bharosa kare k wo apne bandon k saath kabhi ghalat nai karta.

Mout wo, jahan zindagi ther jati hai. Insan ye bhool jata hai k zindagi ki aakhri had mout hai. Ye wo muqam jahan zindagi dhoka de jati or insan us k haaton me bilkul bebas hota hai. Yehi zindagi ki sachaye hai.

22 February 2012


Kash main bahoo kijaga damad hoti…..


Kash main bahoo ki jaga damad hoti, meri saas meri baalin bhi utara karti, mujhy achai achai khane bhi khilaya karti, khila pila kar duaen bhi dia karti, meri biwi ko mere agai peechai phiraya bhi karti, kash main bahoo ki jaga damad hoti …
Socha jae to baho ko bhi buhat si sahooliyat muyassar hoti hain jo damad ko shayed hi kabhi milti ho , per baho ko milne wali sab sai bari sahooliyat shayed wo insaan hota hain jise is maa nai buhat piyar sai paal poss kar 25 saal ka kia hain. Usai bethai bithai ek gharelo nujawan ki muhabbat or khaloos mil jata hai. Jo wakt wo apni maa or baap k sath guzarta tha us ka 50 feesad hissa us baho ko mil jata hai. Kabhi usai ghumane lai jata hain to kabhi usai shopping karane. Daftar sai wapsi per wo us k lie icecream lai kar jata hain chahe usai icecream pasand na bhi ho per phir bhi bas us k checre p ek haseen muskurahat dekhne k lie . .. yani bahoo hone k ye fawaid to hain per agar damad ki baat or hi hoti hain …. Baho ko shayed susral main wo makam or izzat na mile jo ek damad ko us k sasural main milti hain, jaha agar baho k lie uska shohar us k khushi k lie sab kuch karta hain wahi damad k lie na sirf us ki biwi bul k us sasural bhi sab kuch karne ko tayar hota hain kui k unho nain apni beti di hoi hoti hain ….. Allah nain aulad ki naimat sai kismat walo ko nawaza hain chache phir wo beti ho ya bera laikin is amin shadi k bandhan main bndhen ki ek esi reet bhi banai k jo k usi insaan ki aulad ko do taraf bant deti hian…..

20 February 2012

Paisa Phenk Tamasha Dekh!!


Money has never made man happy, nor will it, there is nothing in its nature to produce happiness. The more of it one has the more one wants.
Benjamin Franklin US president

Wise people have great experiences, indeed money has nothing to do with the happiness but those who want it do not much care about happiness. Bangladesh Premier League just started and apparently it is the second highest paid cricket league in the world after Indian Premier League IPL, which means Bangladesh has squandered million of dollars in this event and if they have wasted a lot of money in an amusing  game only, they must have in stock some also.

There was a time in early 70’s when these bangali people were badly depreciated by the ugliest cyclone ever in the history of the world (bhola cyclone). The people remained food less for days. These are the same people who went on a guerrilla war with Indian support against us now (Pakistan). These were the people whose main source of income at that time was fetching fishes and sailing boats and still more then 70 percent of the people do farming but what they have now they have the will to achieve, will to be something. That’s will that they are paying the biggest names of cricket to play in their country. They are even paying our cricketers more then they deserve to play. Play to amuse their people. These are the same people whose captain said after beating Pakistan in a game of 1999 cricket world cup that “after 1971 now we have beaten Pakistan again” 

And let’s talk about us what are we?

We are the one who play, loose and then call Bangali’s our brother. We get paid from those who live to see us failing, drowning, and collapsing. We go and play in their country just for money, whose stake holders call us a terrorist state and believe that playing in our stadium is like letting their players die. We are those people who initially called them terrorist then Baghi and now “brothers”.

Such big hypocrites we are our relations, mood and tantrums change with time and money. This all justifies that the more of money one has the much he wants.

It's more like paisa phenk tamasha dekh

18 February 2012

WHY DO WE ALWAYS CRY AND BLAME ALLAH FOR WHAT WE DONT HAVE??

The most beneficial and the most merciful ALLAH praised us with every blessing in this gloomy  but  glorious world. He provided a planet to the mankind ….known to us as the world; a spherical which is nourished with water, plant, food and wind…His blessings are uncountable like sea shells on the sea shore or the grains of sand found there……Surah Rehman :
Fabi Ayye Aalai rabbikuma Tukazziban
“OR TUM APNEY RUB KI KON KON SE NAIMATO KO JHUTLAO GEY “
The life which he design is similar to the SMS packages, offers  every time something  new and different. Every new offer gives new experience. The roller coaster of experiences  amuses a few but also creates fear among many . Man according to their potential faces the experiences…….the  secret which individuals get from these rides gives a lesson of “shukar “ or  “shikwa”………….
Man has been  generated with the dust. He has been  assigned the duty of “IBADAT”.  Instead of being thankful to lord Almighty  he starts complaining:“shikwa”  for the things he did not  get. What he forget is to thank Allah: “shukar” for the blessing Allah has bestowed upon him……….like while crossing the road a boy sees the stall of JALIBEE. He pauses for a moment there…..his  tongue wants to feel the sweetness of JALIBEE …… his hands rush to his empty pockets……this raises his fury  and he starts complaining to Allah. What he forgets is the time when Allah had given him stomach fulled meal, for which he should have thanked Him.
ALLAH has showered His blessing to all. For example sun moon etc but we never acknowledge them. We always cry for something which we don’t have and blame Allah for it.
HASRATO KI URANO KO CHOO KER BHOLA
KHALIQ HE TO HAI TERA BEHTAR JAN NE WALA!!!
(Shadab)
The” SHUKAR TO ALLAH” makes our life easier in this world as well as in AKHRAT but the SHIKWA only brings Allah’s wrath upon us.
Dear readers:
                      “CHOICE IS PURELY YOURS WHAT U WANT TO DO”
HAI DUNIYA FANI MIT TO IS NEY JANA HAI  
AKHIR BUNDEY PASS US K PHIR LOAT JANA HAI!!!
(Shadab)

The land I am proud of...!!!

A year ago, I was off on a trip away from the country to enjoy my vacations... I can't forget the last moments when i was abroad... How i was sitting at the gate, waiting for my flight to leave for Karachi... I couldn't wait to get back to Karachi, to get through immigration... pick up mu luggage... leave that terminal and have that early morning spring air hit me in the face... God, I love Pakistan!! Everything about it...!!!

I am totally aware of the fact that whether it's America or Switzerland, breathtaking sights are there with lovely environment and an enthusiastic way of living... But no matter what, a Pakistani native can at last find peace of heart and mind only in his own beloved land... his entity and identity... his Paak Watan!!

I am not closing my eyes towards the reality that I am a person who lives in a country where bullet is cheaper than a life... where feelings sells like bananas... where every politician claims himself a good one... where we suffer from hunger, load-shedding, poverty, floods, earthquakes, cruelty and other mishaps...

But...
Still I am a Pakistani... I love my country the most...!!! I am proud to say that I belong to a country whose slogan is "Unity,Faith and Discipline". But however the awful part is somehow we have forgot our duty... We have avoided our responsibility... We have even ignored our national dignity...!! My question to all of you is why...? Why are we treating our land as it is not ours?? How? How can we become so mean-spirited?? How can we endure the darkness which is cruelly wrapping around our homeland??

I want my country to be flourished and prosper even though i know that the whole system has become culprit. I wonder while seeing my fellows who blame the country for their requirements...!! First of all we should look into our own selves... Are we fulfilling the needs of our country which are required by us?? How can we blame the system if we, ourselves, are not united?? How can we blame the system if we can't maintain the discipline among us??

Here, we can't only blame the system.. the government.. as somehow somewhere the fault is our too... We should try to improve ourselves in order to improve our country... We can surelyy do something for our country... Can't we???

Pakistan is waiting for you... It is waiting for innovators to create innovation and change...!!! C'mon show some gutx and prove to be a true and faithful Pakistani!! PAKISTAN ZINADABAD!!!

17 February 2012

Trend of Fairy Tales is long gone...

Trend of fairy tales is long gone.. Prince Charmings are side tracked by Vampires and Knights in shining armor are over shadowed by Wizards.

Yes, I am talking about the masterpieces by Stephenie Meyer and J.K.Rowlings, that has created a whole new fantasy world around us.

I remember, my childhood passed listening to Cindrella, SnowWhite, Repunzel, Sleeping Beauty and others where a princess is trapped by some evil force or magical spells and a handsome, young Prince suited in shining armor, galloping on a white horse comes to her rescue and fights with a dragon, release the Princess from evil spell and they live happily ever after.
But that was long ago. After Harry Potter and the Twilight series, the trend is a bit changed, now the damsel wants the 'distress'. The dreams of Prince Charming are are beaten by the Vampires, Robert Pattinson playing a more than a hundred year old vampire Edward Cullen, considered as the handsomest and most romantic guy ever (besides ASHER) is an exceptional love interest of evey other girl.Young women are captivated by his deeply romantic character, his love, passion and sense or security for his love interest is what makes him a perfect guy that undoubtedly donot exist in this world.
On the other hand Wizards of Hogwarts School of Witchcraft are the real heros, no need to wear that heavy metal dress and enter the arena to defeat a dragon. Here, all you need is a magic wand, say the spell and you're done! Even a 11 year old orpahn kid whose been ill-treated all his life can do that, face the Dark Lord Voldemort and make him pay for his deeds.The adventure by three kids Harry Potter, Ron and Harmoine are so damn fictitious, though, they are the heros.The series has spellbound the readers in such a way that it will be remembered always even when the series is finished.

I, myself think sometimes that why do I watch these films when they don't make any sense in the real world, may be because they are are an escape from the reality we are facng everyday.. 

Hell with reality..!! LONG LIVE HARRY POTTER, LONG LIVE TWILIGHT !!

16 February 2012


SYSTEM OF EDUCATION IN PAKISTAN

It is a story of storm in my heart and service of an education. It was a beautiful night and the brightness of the moon was everywhere except in my life. There was a flood running in my nerves, and a thunder storm in my heart. I was crying, making my head down, and eyes covered with my hands. No one was responsible of this condition but me! It was my HSC result that pronounced me a loser, a loser upon every one. It was my battle that isolated me from every one, because I preferred to adhere with my own understanding of an education. It was a battle with a polluted, and a corrupt system, that was teaching me of being a coward, a copycat, and surrenders my honesty and integrity. I earned 60.00% in my final exams and I was cursing my past, I was worried for my present and for my future. I wanted to be a Doctor but for 60.00% I had no gates open from any University. I had no bright future, for sure.
All that happened because I refused to memorize several essays written by renowned writers and professors. It happened because I refused to elaborate the character of Ghalib, and Iqbal in other writer’s words. It happened because I rejected to learn and write the unnecessary 10pages answer of, "the Kashmir dispute." It happened because I refused to write answers from the notes provided by handsomely paid college Professors (in their private tuition after college). It happened because I refused to take private tuition from college professors who paid for not teaching in colleges, and legally rob students in their private tuition. It happened because I tried to follow the true meaning of knowledge and education, and the result of my loyalty and respect for the integrity of an education was in front of me. It was pronouncing me a loser.
In this bright night I was about to commit suicide, but a shadow came near to me; embraced me and said, "I'm the wise shadow of honesty in you. I'm the one you preferred to follow, I'm the one you learned to respect, I'm the one adopted by wise people, you aren't required to curse or kill yourself but to announce your success of being an honest person. Spread the shadow of your honesty everywhere and follow your dreams. Success has no boundaries and it is not restricted under the gates of these Universities, but it lies in you. She disappeared and in just few seconds all battles inside me disappeared and I attained the peace of mind. Losers are those who have their shops open for looting students, for disrespecting the integrity of education. Losers are those who forced students to learn their notes, and instead of attending colleges, attend their private tuition. What they are doing is a legal corruption, and we are responsible of adding more and more sugar in their pockets. We will have to amend this system. Think and Act, and whatever you do, do it wisely.
God Bless...


Being a Girl Is Not a Big Issue

There is no comparison between boys and girls. Today what a boy can do, I am sure that girls can do better. May be because they are more dedicated. Like my parents have given me the freedom of talking and communicating. So that I can think better. I am a girl 21st century; my parents have given me the confidence that I can do everything in my life but not crossing my limits. Many families have this issue that they have only daughters not a single son, they treat them very rudely. If they have son also, they compare them and show with their behavior that the sons are superior to daughters which build inferiority complex in the girls. I would like to say to these people why you treat your own children. Because in these days girls and boys are both equal no matter what a boy can do, the girl can do the same.

 In every field of life, girls creating history like Arfa Karim and Nameera Saleem making their parents feel proud accepting the challenges of life. In every day of life girls have to face many problems in every field because of this man dominating society. Not every one but some percentages of man doesn’t want a girl make her own way. Girls have the great ability of administration and ability to cross the hurdles which comes in their way. Only one thing that makes a girl equal to man is the confidence level which her parents give her and tell her that you are also special to us and you can do everything which a boy can do. Then the world can see what the ability and the power the girls have who can rule the world.  


15 February 2012

معاشرتی برائی





ویسے تو معاشرے میں بہت سی برائیاں ہیں لیکن سب سے زیادہ آج کل جو نظر آرہی ہے وہ ہر نوجوان کے ہاتھوں میں موبائل فون۔
گزشتہ چند سالوں میں پاکستان میں جہاں دیگر سہولیات کی فراوانی ہوئی ہے وہیں موبائل فونز کے استعمال میں بھی بے تحاشہ اضافہ ہوا ہے۔ اس وقت ہمارے ملک میں موبائل صارفین کی تعداد کروڑوں تک پہنچ چکی ہے اور ان سب میں جہاں کاروباری حضرات سمیت دیگر شعبوں سے وابستہ لوگ اس سہولت سے بھرپور فائدہ حاصل کررہے ہیں تو وہاں نوجوان طبقہ بھی ان موبائل فونز کا انتہائی فضول اور غیر ضروری استعمال کررہا ہے جن کو ہم ذہنی تماشہ بھی کہہ سکتے ہیں جس سے ہر بچّہ کھیل رہا ہے اور ذہنوں کو مفلوج کررہا ہے۔ میں دوسروں کو کیا کہوں میں خود اس برائی کا شکار ہوں لیکن ٹیکنالوجی کا زمانہ ہے اور ہم اس زمانے کے ہیں تو اس سے آشنا تو ہوںگے ہی اور اب یہ ضروری بھی تو بن گیا ہے لیکن فضول چیزوں میں زیادہ استعمال ہورہا ہے اور اس کا فضول استعمال کم عمر کے نوجوان کررہے ہیں جنہیں اس کا صحیح استعمال نہیں پتہ اس کے آئے دن پیکیجیز نے بھی حد کردی ہے اور نوجوان نسل کو اس کا عادی بنا رہے ہیں۔ 'دن رات لگا تار' پیکیج نے تو نہ دن کا رکھا ہے  اور نہ رات کا۔
اس کے بے دریغ استعمال نے اب ہمارے معاشرے کی جڑوں کو کھوکلا کرنا شروع کردیا ہے موبائل فون کو اپنی تفریح اور بری عادتوں کی تسکین کا ذریعہ بنا لیا ہے۔
یہ ایسا عفریت ہے جو ہما ری اخلاقی ،مذہبی ،ایمانی اور قومی اقداروں کو بہت تیزی کے ساتھ ہڑپ کئے جا رہا ہے ۔ خدا کے لئے دولت اکٹھی کرنے کے جنون سے باہر نکل کر اپنے بچو ں کی طرف توجہ دیجئے کہیں ایسا نہ ہو کہ ہماری عدم توجہ اور اس سنگین معا ملے سے جان بوجھ کر چشم پوشی ہماری عزت اور وقار کے سا تھ ساتھ ہمیں اپنی اولاد سے محرومی ہی کا سبب نہ بن جائے.
To my Brother
It is often said that your brother is your first male friend in your life, and I feel blessed and proud to be a friend like you although I don't remember a single moment when you hadn't teased me. Today I want you to know there is nobody more important than you.I cannot begin to count the number of times he has either gotten me out of trouble, or influenced me to make the right decisions. Knowing the difference between right and wrong can sometimes be more difficult than you would imagine. If and when I did do something wrong, I was not nearly as concerned with explaining my situation to my mom as I was in confronting my brother. I had to tell him exactly what had happened, and deal with the consequences he thought were fitting. I use to think that he was too hard on me about things, but I have come to realize that if it weren't for his guidance, I wouldn't have become the person I am today.
I love it when you call me "Mari G" but never take my first name, I love it when you tease me by saying to ammi "Iski shadi kara den takey hamare ghar me b sukoon ho " I love it when you take my things from my room and say "han li hai too!!", I love it very much when I ask you to drop me university and you say "Han me to tmhara driver hun", I love it even more when you bring chocolates for me and never give me without teasing, I love you brother for every single moment of love and affection you gave me, thanks for all those crazy moments, no one will ever understand my relationship with you... A crazy friend, my brother, or I say my life...

13 February 2012

Great Mother


"All that i am and hope to be I owe that to my angel mother" said by Abraham Lincoln the 16th president of United States whose mother died when he was just nine years old. His mother really did not play a great role in his upbringing but what ever he was he owed that all to her mother.

How good it would have been if Bakhtawar Bhutoo Zardari bz rather then updating a satire reaction over Imran khans jalsa on 27th dec had asked her father about the progress and verdict of the case of her mother how courageous it would have been if she had raised her eyes that why her father has not found the murderer of her mother till yet,being the head of the state. but what she said was zinda hain bb zinda hain garhi khuda Baksh mai zinda hain. BB was as big as bilwal is today when her father asked her that she can leave the country by her will and can live a properous and healthy life on the last night of his conviction but she refused by saying that i will not go i will stay and continue your mission to save Pakistan.

 She alone sacrifised alot in the path of democracy beared years of detention exile and attacks and she proved that democracy is the best revenge by proving herself as an iron women to her opposition and by bringing democratic government of herself in 1988.

 I being a youth of Pakistan look up to Bakhtawar Bilawal and Maryam Nawaz as our future leaders. but do bilawal bakhtawar have anything like their mother in them? i leave this on you people BB did not even meet Zia ul Haq in her days of detention whilst her kids have all Q league the (Qatil league) to sit in the cabinet they allowed the government to give Gaurd of honor to her killer. BB never compromised with democracy but today we dont see any symbol of democracy. just by adding bhutto in your name doesnt mean that you have got their genetical legacy in you. You would have to sacrifice alot suffer alot to be bhutto. not by chanting slogans.

This status update of children of BB has made me believe that BB zinda nahi hain na he BB ke asool, BB ki legacy zinda hai!!

Habib Jalib has said finely
 har bilawal hai aj des ka maqrooz
paon nangey hain benaziron k!

11 February 2012

DREAMS COME TRUE

DREAMS COME TRUE
The shining star and the moon light take us to the new world….. i am not taking about other planet mars or Jupiter !!! Here talking about the world which we create after sleeping “the world of dreams”
This dreamy world open up the gates of new wishes, desires, shows the new dimension and give a spirit to make it real …I am not denying the fact that there is always a difference in reality or fiction. The things which we crumbled in our mind through our dreams are not reality but it is a trailer of reality which we visualize.
When one’s wakeup from a sleepy sleep night all things remain the same as they were before he got to sleep and closes his eyes… the only things that changes after a sleepy night is inside the human mass  a certain change come up in the feeling or emotion in the darkness and settled inside a heart. This change nothing really changes neither the beating style of heart nor the blood flow. It just changes the pattern of feeling and emotions. These changes show the path of search and give a purpose to one to accomplish something. The dreams and a mosquito bite is somehow similar …………… no matter how much u control ur self to rid the itching which is given by a mosquito bite u can’t until u start to itch the place which is bitten by mosquito it gives u relief .dreams posses a certain energy just like the mosquito bite no matter how much u control ur self whether u want to believe in ur dreams or not …….the dreams make u believe. The famous line of Paulo Coelho(writer ) is :
“When you want something, all the universe conspires in helping”
The only thing u need to make ur dream real is to do believe in it  woh kehte hain na :
Khudi ko ker buland itna k her taqdeer se pehle
Khuda bunde se khud poche bta teri raza kiya hai
If you believe in ur dream nothing in this world can stop u to make it real neither ur destiny nor ur fate
Start believing in ur dreams and make them real !!!!

Anti-Valentine's Day!

Valentine's day??!!! What the hell is this?? This day do not worth any value in my religion and I am proud to say that I belong to a religion of "ISLAM". The religion of integrity, respect, true love and co-operation on that which is good and righteous.

As 14th February is coming soon I would like to divert your attention towards an important stuff... The celebration of the so-called feast of love (Valentine's day) has become widespread among our youth. You will find dates and couples everywhere in the parks, restaurants, malls and the list goes on.... I do not have a single clue that why my nation's youth is madly interested in such type of inept stuff..!!??

Valentine's day has nothing to do with Islam, thereby it should also have nothing to do with Muslims. But in spite of this nowadays young girls and boys are fooling around without having any idea of the weight of sins they are carrying and the result they are going to get..!!

Our religion has stated explicit rules regarding love, affection, respect and honor. But in spite of all these there are some boundaries defined as well... The boundaries which help us to lead a respected and honorable life... The boundaries which clears the difference between good and bad, pure and impure, true and false...!! So my advice to all of you is don't be a fool with the fools. It's a western cheap festival not ours..!!

We should develop our own dignity as a Muslim, a true follower. Be the reason of uplifting great, shining and Holy principles of Islam, if can't, no need to be a reason of embarrassment either...!!!

May Almighty let us follow the real teachings of beloved Islam till the last breath....!!! Ameen!!

10 February 2012

Syed Mustafa Kamal.. An Inspiration!

A man behind the reformation of Karachi, who with his endless efforts changed the infrastructure of the city, announced the Second best Mayor of the World in 2008. Syed Mustafa Kamal is truely a personality to be inspired from.

MBA from University of Wales,UK, an undergraduate from Malaysia..he could have settled abroad, could have settled his business there, could be leading a better life..but why did he come back? What brought him back? to the city which was once the city of light and losing life!

Just his patriotism and loyalty.. I guess!
A loyal member to his party and a dutiful citizen of the country, who came back to serve his country.

Many people come, claims, but I saw no one wandering on the streets of the city at midnight with his team so devotedly in rain keeping check on sewage systems, patrolling the streets to keep check and balance on the peace of the city.

And if we talk about the infrastructure of Karachi, Mustafa Kamal is a reformer! He is the man who rebuilt the city and actually made it the City of Lights. Just with in the short period of four years he proved, he was not another man from any other local party. It was his attitude and commitment to the citizens of Karachi that has made him such a dynamic leader.

He is that influential man who had a dream and an ability to achieve it and surely shown the world how to achieve your dreams when your vision is clear.
No doubts, what Mustafa Kamal has done for the City of Karachi and its people, he is the man behind the development of the city and will always be in the hearts of Karachiites. He is the hero and for ever so long an INSPIRATION.
~He conquers who endures.~
SAY NO TO SMOKING
As many know that the effects on people caused by smoking it crossing the final borders of danger to quit that sickening habit of smoking. Hence if I get a chance to ban anything in the world, it will be smoking. Due to peer pressure, propaganda and availability, teenage smoking has been on the rise since 1986. Cigarette smoking is one of the major killers in the world. The biggest side affect from smoking is Cancer. Three thousand children start using tobacco each day.
Millions of people around the world enjoy the disgusting habit of smoking. This habit contributes to an outbreak of diseases which brings pain, suffering and death to millions every year. We should end this suffering by prohibiting smoking in all its forms. Smokers, non-smokers, and the environment are all adversely affected by smoking. Smoking is one of the worst things you can do to your body. Humans are the only species that have, "this urge", to inhale harmful smoke into their body. There are all types of smokers. Some smokers are casual smokers, who only smoke in a social scene, other types of smoker are depressed/stressed smokes, who smoke, because they feel that it relieves something in them, and finally there are addictive smoker, who don't know why they even started, but they can't stop. What these people don't realize is that the harm they are putting their bodies through. There are many risks of smoking, like lung disease, heart disease, and risks in pregnancy to the unborn child. Today it is known that cigarette smoking is the leading cause of lung cancer and death. One researcher has described cigarette smoking as causing "a chronic inflammatory disorder of the lower airways."
Many teens start smoking because they have friends or older siblings who smoke. Some teens look at smoking as a way to get through parties, dates, or other difficult social situations. Smoking gives them something to do with their hands and makes them feel older or more sophisticated.

Some teens - especially girls - think smoking is a way to keep their weight under control. A person might think that if she has cigarettes in her hands, she's a lot less likely to eat.

Teens often start smoking because one or both parents smoke or because another close relative is a smoker. They get the message that smoking is an acceptable habit. Others smoke because it isn't acceptable in their families. These teens may think that smoking shows that they are old enough to make their own decisions.

No matter what age people start smoking - and nearly 90% of adult smokers start while they are still teens - they never intend to get hooked. They may start by taking a cigarette or two from a friend at a party, and then go on to buying an occasional pack. Soon they realize that they can't go without that pack. They've gotten used to reaching for a cigarette first thing in the morning, after meals, or during any stressful time. They are addicted, both physically and psychologically.
It's not easy to stop smoking even if you want to. According to many experts, the nicotine in tobacco is more addictive than cocaine and heroin. One survey of high school students who were daily smokers showed that only 5% of them intended to be smoking in 5 years. But after 5 years 75% of them were still smoking. Smokers are also more likely to abuse other substances, such as alcohol and marijuana.

Even if becoming addicted doesn't bother you, the side effects of smoking may. For instance, smokers stink. Literally. The smell of tobacco lingers for a long time on your hair, your clothes, and your breath. Sniff a dirty ashtray to see what a smoker smells like to non-smokers. Smokers don't look good - not at all like the attractive people have you seen in ads. Their teeth become yellow, and it's hard to get the stains removed. Smokers also get many more wrinkles than non-smokers and this is only to name a few effects.
It's often difficult to think several years ahead the reality is that each time you smoke a cigarette; it is costing you 5 to 20 minutes of your life. It puts you at much greater risk for heart disease and cancer. In fact, one out of every three smokers will die a smoking-related death.

Finally, don't get discouraged. When it gets tough, try to remember that being a nonsmoker will give you a whole lot more - more energy, more money in your pocket, and in the long run, more life to live while being healthy.
Smoking should be stopped it hurts people that have no clue that it is hurting them and its hurting others that don’t even smoke I hope you make the right choice when someone asks if you want to smoke.
Smoking kills. If you're killed, you've lost a very important part of your life.
Brooke Shields

09 February 2012

Connection between Youth and Internet…



Today our youth is quick-witted and brainy and they have also a clear concept about their aims and ambition because they are broad minded or open mind. They are very curious to know everything because they want to judge whether positive or negative. They are all known very well what they are thinking and what they are keeping in mind.

Our youth is living in the age of science and technology. We see many wonderful inventions around us. Their number is increasing day by day. These inventions have made our life easy, comfortable and interesting. They have changed the ways of our thinking and living.

Now, I am talking about one of the most important science invention like “Internet”.  Internet is now become addition of our youth. They effect on youth in many ways. Like hacking websites, Internet addiction, Online gambling problems etc.

Other sides many positives effects like they connect to social media through Skype, Facebook, Twitter etc. Our young generations are getting information from the Internet. They have become very closed to their near ones.

Now our young generation is going too far through Internet and they have so much knowledge on the Internet might be one.


08 February 2012


Urtai Panchi….


Pank phailatai, chehchahata gungunatai, itehad o itefaq sai ek hi jhund main ye urtai panchi ……Jo dunya kai khayal o khuwab, fiqar o pareshani ghum or muskurahat har ek cheez sai door apni hi ek alag dunya basai khuda ki hamd o sana or uski naimatoo ka shukar ada karte kitne khubsoorat lagte hain… aZadi wakai ek naimat hain per shayed y urtai panchi jab door ufaq  p apne par phailate hian to y bhool k jate k jab sham dhalai gi to unhai wapis mur k usi zameen ki taraf ana hain…..
insaan bhi kahi na kahi shayed inhi azad urtai parindo ki manind hain, … jo apni zindagi main gum, kuch na kuch pane ki hasrat lie bas urta hi ja rha hain , bina y sochai smjhai k apni is uran main wo peechai kia kuch chora rha hain,.. aj ki is matlabi dunya mian rehne wala insan apne maqasid ko pora karne ki dhun mai bas apne par phaiali ek oonchi ooran lie uarai ja rha hai liakin shayed wo bhi y bhol gaya hian k usai mur k usai zameen mai 2 gaz kai makan main jana hai…

07 February 2012


Why to lose hope, when life moves on…..



Almost every person we meet seems to be dissappointed, annoyed and hopeless. Our youth has forgotten to be cheerful, our children are growing with no hope of better future, and we are scared of life. Infact we have stopped living…. Hopelessness is a malady which captures our whole body and mind and throws us into the depth of darkness and pessism. But above all, life moves on…… wether we act as a cowards or heroes. Everything we shut our eyes to, everything we run away from, deny, denigrate or despise, reserves to defeat us in the end.

Then why to loose hope? Why to be cheeredoff? Why to be annoyed?

Life is beautiful……. Every moment is a golden one but for him who has a vision to recognize it. Hope for good, because hope has expectancy in it and when it works, good things will happen to you. The best way to move on happily with life is to motivate you to quite looking back and to move forward, and the only way to move forward is to face forward… Everything happens for a reason, so why to worry. We must learn to live, to win, and to smile because it’s our own life. We should be optimistic as it will teach us the art to fight with difficulties and bring confidence in you. And thus it will glow smile in your face and make your life easier because life moves on……..

I am the girl of our society.

I am the lady of this world like any other girl i also started my teenage with the dream of prince on a horse to come as it was in princess tales, that's how my childhood was spent by watching all these animated series, Anastasia, Mermaid, Pocahontas, Cinderella and Snow white. Later in my own eyes i had dreams of a prince, prince like it was in fairy tales I waited for him to come for very long but he had not gone any where so how could he come, i started finding him and my search ended up in falling in love finally.

life was good year passed but the life does not always remain the same!! my teen ended and so did the crush, He dumped me life betrayed me. The prince of my life has gone, he has left me all alone, shattered, sobbed. The life has changed, my dream of being happily ever after has crumbled.I am striving, striving hard to get over to it but cant find a way,cant find the peace of my heart it was with him. He was my life, Life i always dream for, and since he is not here i do not want to live any more but it's not that easy.

 I cant do anything, cant concentrate on studies even, what ever i am doing now is just to get rid of his shadow the only hope left to me is to get married and think about making a better future after that.

Yes i am a girl of Pakistan i am the voice of the majority of 51 percent women of my country i am the half of the 70 percent youth of my country and the only dream i had was a dream to be loved.