"Fatty", "Bongs" and Barney" :)

Just as stars are nothing without the night... Just as the spring season would have no origin without the greenery... Just as there would be no sign of rain without the clouds... Similarly i am incomplete without you guys... I literally would have no existence as the real me if you buddies weren't always there with mee..!!! With you guys around i really don't care how do i look, what am i doing, how am i behaving and even when i'm stuck in the middle of the mess i just kick it off because i love it when you guys get exasperated and straight up the stuff for me... :-)


I'll never forget our last picnic how you all were playing part like my "3 mommies", i think there's no need to elaborate it over here.. :P I'll never forget the time when we used to sit in library to prepare notes ending up laughing and strolling out of library... xD the travelling in tapley tapley (bus) for the first time with you guys... surprise birthday party at my place, where i was so overwhelmed that i ended up crying... :) Every piece of memory with you guys is priceless for me... 

FATTY (Hina) - Ahh i love you.. everyone knows it since you have left the university... :p You are the one on whom i was totally dependent... And why not?? We are childhood companions.. :) I love it when you spend your money on my eating stuff and i adore it more when i snatch it myself!! :D

BONGS (Shadab) - Godd you are complicated.. In fact our friendship is a lot more complicated.. :p When everyone is out of reach you hold my hands tightly... but sometimes things get so much muddled that i wonder what went wrong... :-/ But no matter what i adore our friendship bond... I love it when i irritates you and you get mad..!! :D

BARNEY (Sana) - Mmm you are my elder sister... :) From day one you are helping and encouraging me from making my assignment's cover page till the lanes in which you stand to do my work whether it's of fees submission or duplicate proformas and enrolment card.. :p I love it when you get witty with me..!! Oww and i love your crazy laugh too.. :D

You guys are my fun world...!! Ohhh break...!!! You pals aren't angels fall from the sky on me...!! :-/ Sometimes you all behave like monsters!! I hate it when you fight with one another without any logical reason... How i manage to knot this bond tightly u guys don't have any idea.. x( Anyways... Why you people can't digest money in my bag..?? And for God sake leave my key chain alone it's v.cute..!! :P


I love you guys alott... so much that i can't express it in words... Thank you very  much for being such a wonderful part in my life...!!! Thanx for everything... I'll love you guys till my last breath... Yes my "Fatty", "Bongs" and "Barney", you worth itt...!! :-)

A brave Nation!

Pakistan is not just poverty, bombs of corruption. It is 2005 earthquakes hospitality, it has fought dictatorship and survived. It is 40,000 deaths for global peace. It has always survived the target killings and ethnic issues. It is the martyrdom of soldiers at Siachen. Pakistan is the epitome of resilience. It is the bravest nation of the world!

 Pakistan has always shown that though the living conditions here are getting worse by time but the bravery of people here is remarkable.

Since the birth it has faced pressures from America and threats from India, lost its land in East. but still trying to stand abreast with the other developed countries.

Pakistan has experienced dictatorships and several times and this brave nation has always accepted and obeyed its dictators.

The most memorable event of Pakistan's hospitality and bravery was the earthquake of October 2005, we have seen people come out from all over the country as well as from Pakistani diaspora around the world worked to support the survivors.

Pakistan has gone through worst of the situations during the talibans terrorism, survived the target killings last year and stood straight up head facing problems.

The recent most incident of Siachen is of getting goosebumps as the 152 soldiers lost their lives and their martyrdom will be remembered always.

It is the bravest nation of all and proved itself in almost every field and survived the worst most situations.

Shadows Of Soul....!!!

Fastness.. Loudness.. Rawness.. Toughness.. To continue in all circumstances is a part of your story.. your life... In order to keep walking.. in order to keep your foots firm you need some peace.. some cozy moments... The moments in which the serene sensation goes deep inside your soul.. the moments in which you realize that there is nothing more heavenly than silence...


Drifting along the seashore.. Grey sky all over me with twinkling of stars as a symbol of nature.. cool breeze of a windy night touching my soul.. musical sound of the waves.. darkness of the night securing me around like an invisible blanket.. bare foot walking on sand.. leaving the trace of my foot prints behind.. feeling the softness, the wetness, the humbleness of sand to let me be a part of it.. the moonlight blistering it's shine on me reminding me that i am not just an unworthy piece of sand.. These feelings and priceless moments are just out of this world.. like a heaven on earth for me...

Sometimes.. there comes a time when you want to come out of this materialistic world.. You want to be a part of nature.. you want to be a part of true beauty... It isn't necessary that you'll always have a hand in your hand.. a companion with you... But sometimes the pure light of moon.. the waves of water fulfill all the desires and wishes inside you... gives you the feeling of fulfillment.. the feeling of harmony...


We got so much strangled within the people.. within the tunes of laughter and abyss of tears.. There comes a time when we feel suffocated.. we feel tired.. we feel that we have lost ourselves in this world...


I found the silence of life in the sound of waves coming and going.. full of music and poetry... The empty footprints on the sand renew the memories inside me about the past.. about my journey.. about the good  and bad ones who become the part of my journey... The brightness spilling out of moon erasing the shadow of every night that were burdensome...


Whenever i become a part of this breathtaking worthy atmosphere, i found myself complete.. i feel my life  outright... That's a kind of magic, isn't it?? Every bit as much as faeries and spells and winged horses... Yet full of power... this innocence, silence and simple beauty of sea evoked the new freshness.. the new hope deep inside me... It's like as if pieces that were hidden or unacknowledged have suddenly tumbled into place....

Hum ne kar dikhaya!!

Hum uni se nikle maqsad tou pata tha magar koi planning sirf ek irada tha e jazba ke hum jis maqsad se niklein hain usko aj har mumkin pora kareinge, ishe umeed pe nikal parey na jagah pata na jaib mai paise, bus dil mai kuch karne ka hosla le ke university ki ye 6 larkian apne azam pe gamzan thien. Auto mai baithey apne raste or manzil ke barey mai sochte hoye jab hum apni manzil pe pohanche tou humei pata chala ke hum mai se kisi k pass bhi paise nahi hain.

Rakshey ka karaya 50 rupee or kisi ke pass se 30 rupey nikle hum ne ghanimat jaan ke masoom ban ke rakshey wale se mazrat ke sath kaha k humarey pass itne he hain, Allah ka karma k naik kaam ka inaam bhi naik us rikhshey wale neye keh kr kuch nahi kaha k agey kisi gharib ko de daina. Mulk mai is afratafri ke halat mai us rakhshey wale ka ye amal kisi farishtey se kam na tha humarey liye.

Ab humne qadam barhana shru kiye us kaam k liye jis kaam ke azam k sath hum ae they, sheher se wall chalking mitane k kaam pe. Humne apne apne dilon mai darr ke sath pehli dewar ki chalking saaf karma shru ki, ahishta ahista humey ahsaas hua k humarey hosle itne buland the ke garmi ki shaded laher bhi humei mehsoos nahi hori thi, humarey dilon mai siyasi partion ka khauf, darr kuch bhi mahsoos nahi hora tha zehen mai tha tou bas ye ke humne aj ye kaam karma hai.

Wahan jaaney se pehle humarey dilon mai ek khauf tha ke humey kisis siyasi party k karkun ne apna naara mitatey daikha tou ghusey mai na aajaye laikin ye kam kartewe mujhe jo sukoon, itminaan or khushi mahsoos hoi uska mai tasawar bhi nahi kar sakti ti na he biyaan kar sakti hun.bus ye k waqai humne kuch kar dikhaya. Age ap sachi niyat se kuch karna chahtey ho tou ap kar sakte ho bus hosla hona chahye rastey Allah ta’ala khud paida kar daita hai.

And Everything Is Beautiful & 

Nothing Hurt.. <3

Ahhh life... Enduring rash behaviors?? Things are messed up?? Everything is turning upside down?? Heavy burden is weighing you down?? Agony is eating you alive??

Well no matter what... No matter how deep you suffer or how endless the ocean of your life is unsettling... The vehicle of your life is having thousands of wheels so it will continue it's journey... It will go on experiencing and enduring all the ups and downs... Now the choice is in your hands whether to just sit back closing yours eyes to the surroundings or to smile bravely looking outside the window either in sunshine or rainy times..!!

If you have to cross this journey of life either in one way or other than why not with content and satisfaction?? It surely isn't necessary to get strangled in tough loops of life and forget life what it is actually about!! Ok, so here are some tips to lead a stress free and full of cherries life. If any one person would adopt a single fact i'll be overwhelmed..

• I believe that smiling, laughing and enjoying is the best anguish burner. Just forget what holds you back!! This time will never come back... Every passing moment will become a memory the very next moment... so why not keep some good stuff in the store of memories??
• I belief in being strong when everything seems to be going wrong... It could have been worst than it is right at this moment... Be strong!! Trust Almighty... And always remember that everything happens for a reason... This gives you a lot more hope and faith in God!!
• I belief that world is just three days - As for yesterday, it has vanished!! Along with all that was in itt... So please get out of it and stop crying over a spilled milk..!! As for tomorrow, it is an another day.. an another chance...!! As for today, it is yours.. it is in your hands completely... Work in it.. Have a blasting today!! So it will make your yesterday memorable and your future enthusiastic..!!
• I belief in loving myself - The only person who is responsible for you happiness.. your sadness.. your rudeness and all your doings is the one standing in front of you in the mirror... Yes it's you!! Open up your wings and just fly... Forget what everyone else thinks... Do good and be good...!!
• And the most important tip for all the ladies out there; Place your heart in the hands of God and He will place it in the hands of the man who he believes deserves it... I belief it too that the happiest girls are the prettiest girls...!! :-)

Enjoy your life...!!

Cheerio!! :) 

meri pyari behan

 Dunya ki nazar mei her rishta khoon se pehchana ja ta hai, ek behan ka rishta hai jo sirf dil se banta hai aur pechana jata hai.bari behan buhat achi dost bhi hoti hai jo app ki har pareshani main app ka sath deti hai or achay say hamain acha aur bura ki tameez sekhati hai. Hum jitna bhi dor kyun na hon lakin hamesha aisa lagta hai kay woh hamara pass hai. Yahe dil ka rishta khelata hai. bari behan maan ki tarha bhi hoti hai jo app ki dekh bhal bhi karti hai lakin kabhi kabhi us ko tang karna main bhi buhat maza ata lakin jab woh gussa hoti hai to eik laga bhi deti hai . 
Buhat log atay hain zindigai mei aur chalay jatay hai, jo dil me ek behan jaga banati hai woh koi bhi nahi lay sakti. Kam  time saath raha lakin jitna bhi time guzra woh buhat acha tha ...
 mujhe yaad hain jab dil dukhta tha yah main pareshan hoti to koi nahi pechanta tha lakin sach main pata nahi kaisa meri behan ko pata lag jata tha k main pareshan hon to us waqat ek behan hi hai jo ek muskurahat la sakti hain jis ko apni pareshani batana ka dil karta hai. App behan nahi ek dost bhi hain, jo mohabbat mujay app se hai woh kabhi kaam nahi ho sakti aur hamasha woh he mohabbat  rahay gi yeh woh mohabbat hoti hai jo kabhi kam ho bhi nahi sakti hai..  . Behan ek humsafar hotti hai aur uski kami koi pori nahi ker sakta hai. qismat walay hotay bari behan hoti hain . Aur unse zada meri qismat achi hai kay mujhay aisi dil wali behan mili.


              Meri pyari behna
              Tere bina nahin rehna
              Tera kya hai kehna
              Tu hai mera gehna


             Is dharti ki sabhi khushiyan tere upar vaar doon,
             Tu kahe ko saari duniya ko tere aage jhuka doon,

Are pathans a real threat to peace of karachi???!

Every single day I hear the news of pathan killings or pathan mahajir riots, last week I heard 4 pathans killed at paharganj and even 2 pathans near my house who use to run a chai hotel in a market place and were busy in their daily routine work were killed, straight firing between pathans and mahajirs at sir syed and federal urdu university is case of every next day.

After every next month life becomes threatening here in Karachi because mahajir don't want pathans in Karachi and pathans don't want to leave. I don't say that every pathan is involved in such activities but all suffer pathetically because of some, they lose their source of income, their homes and are forced to live a scared life!

When pathans are given a separate province then why the hell are hey here?? ruining the peace of the city!! and not letting people here to live in peace!

A month back there was a robbery at my granmother's house and the bandits were unfortunately pathans. From that day she is scared like hell. Evene she forbids every body to go out unnecessarily as the bandits are going to come again and kill us.

All this meant that these pathans whether they are afghanis or migrated from peshawar side are not accepted here and never will be until they'll be interfering in the live of Karachiites!

ajj main uni kyun aye....?

Pharna likna kis ko nahi pasand, asa nahi hosakta hai kay hum kudrati zaheen hon aur hamain degree mil jai? hum jaty to hain uni lakin dil nahi hota, lakin jab buhat achay dost hon to dil wahe laga rehta hain lakin sirf dosto kay sath he .aur yeh pata hota hai kay mujhe dosto kay sath time guzarna hai. Hum uni  jatay to hain pernay laykin mei bhi yeh janti hon aur app bhi yahe jantay hain kay waha parhae kam aur taffreh ziada hoti hai aur agar hum class main lecture lena chalay bhi jaye to hamari teacher class nahi leti kabhi hum nahi parhtay to kabhi hamari teachers. Class main roz yeh kheti hain kay main ajj buhat important parhao gii aur pata nahi kaha ki batain kar kay chali jati hai yeh un kay class kay jana kay bad tak samjh nahi ata hai . roz uni say ghar akar sochti hon kay main ajj uni kyun gaye thiii..??

jab is sawal pay mana apni class fellows say questins kiya to har kisi nay pane dil ki bahras kuch is tarha nikali …

•  uni mai to parhne hi aya jata hai magar ajjj na to koi parhain hoi aur na hi teacher ai ..
• aur kuch nay is sawal ka jawab ek nae sawal ki soort main diya kay teahers paise to parhanay kay liya lati hain laikin phir parhate kyun nahi hai …?
• aur kisi nay pocha k hum wo kyun nahi parhtay jo subject main hota hain is liya teaches or hum yaha sirf apna wakt guzarne ate hain …
• aur kisi nay is sawal ka reaction is tarha diya kay k jin sawalat k jawab hamari teachers ko hi nahi pata hota who he sawal who hum say kyun karti hai…?
• Ai to buaht important class leni thi per aa kay andaza howa kay  wo class wakai buaht important thi …:p 

uni ki bhi apni yadain hoti hain bas is he tarha 1st samester phr 2nd phir 3, 4, 5 .... guzartay jaye gay aur hum kuch acha aur bura sekhtay jayae gay aisa nahi hain kay hum kuch sekhtay nahi hain bas abhi hum kuch sekhna chatay nahi hain warna hamari teacher to bhat kosish karti hain sekhana ki bas dua hai kay hum sab pass hokar nikal jayae aur apni uni ka aur apni teachers ka name roshan karay AMEEN....

Siachen "Bundle of Roses"

The base point of siachen gyari sector turned into frost graveyard when a 80ft tall and 1 kilometer broad ice glacier slide down on the battalion headquarter on April 7^th 2012. A figure of 135 bodies are stuck under it or probably died. It’s been 14 days since the rescue teams are digging the glacier in search of life under it.

Sia means rose and Chen means bundle in Chinese. Siachen is a Chinese name which means bundle of roses. While there is no hope of oxygen there. Siachen is considered as the highest battleground of the world. India and Pakistan have been fighting on this ground since 1984. Its daily expenditure is 150 million and India spends 5 times more than us. The peak has -30 temperature in summers which goes up to -50 in winters. The soldiers are not only fighting with each other but against the weather. A soldier dies in every 3 days due to outrageous climate, but the moral is still very high of our army.  They still want to die for their homeland.

How awful is that the whole city sets on fire stop working when even a councilor dies, but no President, Prime Minister visited the place of incident, and no appreciating visit was given to the rescue teams to buck them up.

And the statements of our political leadership in these conditions are not appropriate. Why to bring our soldiers down first just to set an example for India that we are more courteous. Just to show courtesy to our most favorite state. We should definitely get our forces down, we should not let them die there fighting against the weather but India has to take the step first we did not go for the war first so we should not quit first. The blood of our soldiers should waste like this that we quit on the war ground.  Our army has suffered a lot we just should not let it go like this.

- Zindagi -

Zindadi naam hai jeenay ka.. laikin kya humarai zindagi ka maqsad sirf jeena he hai ya kuch aur bhi hai???

Zindagi milnay aur bicharnay ka aik haseen kheel hai, Kitnay log zindagi main atay hain, miltay hain aur phir bichar jatay hain, hum rotay bhi hain aur aik din phir muskura bhi detay hain, yehi zindagi ki asal haqeeqat hai aur isi ka naam zindagi hai. Iqbal ne kya khoob kaha hai ke..

“Zindagi insaan ki aik dum ke siwa kuch bhi naheen,

Dum hawa ki mouj hai, zam ke siwa kuch bhi naheen.”

Zindagi humaray liye humaray lamhaat ka intikhab karti hai aur kabhi kabhi in ka intikhab humain na'insafi lagta hai, Aur hum dukhi bhi ho jatay hain...
Magar, kahin na kahin hum apni qismat par qabu rakhtay hain Kyun ke hum faisla kar saktay hain ke kis tarah logon ko aur waqiyat ko khud par asar andaaz honay dena chahiye. Is liye beshumaar dukh aur khushyan humaray khudh ke faislon se hum tak pohanchti hain.

Zindagi "Tajurba gaah" hai aur halaat "Aazmaishain" in se guzar kar insaan agar SONA na ban sakay to MITTI ka dhair bhi nahin rehta. Tou hamay chahye ke hum apni zindagi guzarnay ke liye aik maqsad banaen jis main hamay tajurba bhi ho aur aazmaishon ka saamna karnay ka hosla bhi ho tab kaheen jakay hum apni zindagi ko behtar aur baamaqsad bana saktay hain.

"uth bandh qamar kia darta hain...."

"akhir hamesha mere sath hi esa kui hota hina ...kab milai gi mujhy job , kia faida hian is degree ka..is shield ka...??"

" ufffff..... ye mehngai...! kia hall bana k rakhdia hain is mulk ka in hukmarano nai ...?"

"pata nhi kese kese log rehtai hain, ek larki kia beth jae bus main, ese ghorte hain jese kabhi koi larki dekhi hi na ho...dil karta hin gala daba do..."

'aj phir itne logo ka qatal hoa hain ,,, inhe marne walo ka zameer kha so gya hain...?"

"akhir kab badlai gai is mulk kai halat....? "

and so on.....there are too many questions to be answered and many to be change but the question is who will answer and who will change....?

now it wont be wrong here to say that sometimes to answer a question you need an another question....the current situation of Pakistan where youth is hopeless, fairing to leave their homes, corruption, load shedding and many more..... such questions are in every one mind but there is no one to take step and work for the solution. "uth bandh qamar kia darta hain" song of Shahzad Roy has highlighted all such issues of the country and gives a message to be courageous enough to take step for own safety and right deeds. target killing corruptions etc are very big issues and cannot be solved by us but very small issues which are faced today can be solve if e have courage and faith in Allah. 

"THE FANCY CAN NOT CHEAT SO WELL AS SHE IS FAMED TO DO, DECEIVING ELF"

"The fancy can not cheat so well as she is famed to do, deceiving elf." -John Keats

Well... I totally agree with this quotation. Do you?
Before, we get our verdict to agree or disagree, let us discuss this topic in detail................

 Fancy means to live in imaginative world. We sometimes take imagination as our rescuer from the hardships and troubles of this life. Getting tired of the routine life and the "chick chick" of this mechanical life, we turn to a life which only exists in our mind_ imaginative world. Just like when we are very young, we make our imaginary friends, similarly, when we are exhausted with the troubles of our life, we start imagining about another world, where everything around us, not only consoles us but also give us strength to stand fast. We start imagining the life we want it to be. We become a writer of our own imaginative life and it gives us great relief. We give mouth to our own characters and make them perform as we wish them to. They walk on the stage of our fancy life, as we choose them to walk. We may push them, threaten them, and force them to utter the words of our choice or even slay them... Well, slaying is a little exaggerating... Hahaha =D
This pretending world gives us so much pleasure that for a time being, we feel totally cleaned as if we have eons some prize. It is like a dose of some medicine that we have taken to leave this world.
But... Can this fancy cheat is so well? Can this give us everlasting escape from the troubles of our lives? No...I think it can't. It may make us relieved or relaxed for sometime, but can never give us perpetual happiness. We have to come back to the world in order to face the black side of life. Sometimes, when we are plunged back to reality, the thorns seem more sharp and poisoness. They cut us thoroughly and make us bleed immensely. We loose our strength and start panting. Tremors of weekness give us jolts and make us more feeble.

But sometimes, the result is totally opposite. We feel so relaxed after being in the safety of our own happy life that we think that what ever may come on our way, we can tackle it well. We raise ourselves like shields. Nothing deteriorates us. We strengthen our defence like a call of a frost and try to resolve the problems at our best.

Whether, we get weak or become strong_ it is very vivid and clear that imagination can not keep us in our lustrous would for a long time. That is thy John Keats has called it "deceiving elf"_ it can deceive us for a short time but then we have to face all the cruelties and hardships of life with our eyes wide open.

Boys V/S Girls

Boys are more trust worthy and loyal then girls when it comes to relationship, that is what I used to think years back, that statement of mine was pretty confused being a girl and I have experienced many debates on this hot topic in my circle of friends. That was probably my childhood and immaturity which made me stern on my view point, that was perhaps the time when you are happy with my own assumptions and do not listen to anybody.

But now I think just because I had seen a couple of examples of my male friends who were really loyal with their companions and they could not make up after break up with anybody else are really very insufficient example to cater the whole male fraternity. These two examples are nothing when on the other end you have infinite examples of loyalty I realized. For instance, if I take an in-depth review of my own life I have many examples, Example of a sister who has always been there in every hurdle of my life, defending me no matter with whom I am confronting .Whose shoulder has been a real towel to wipe my tears. Moreover example of my friends who kept my things, lend me money in rainy days, kept my secrets. They have sobbed with me in bad times and cherished the joy of my life. And if these examples are not enough to change my view then there is my mother the ultimate source of my life, the real strength of mine, the life to me.

The point is my mother, my sister, my friends are all women and when they all have been so loyal and pure in these relationships then how can it be possible that \\She// won’t be the same in the most precious, beautiful and special relation of her life. Have not I witnessed her tears when she cried for him, have not I seen how desperate she was, how sincere she was to him then how difficult it would have been for her to break it all up. There must have been a strong reason that she stepped back to have the live she always wished. 

The reason is of dignity that she does not have to look only one feeling, she has to look her family her parents her father, her brothers, they had sentiments too for her then how can she betray all of them just to be loyal to one person? And if she even did so, after even all that would she be considered a loyal person probably not!! So she has not dumped him, she just endured  So if she has left him due to these circumstances then I firmly believe that no other creature can be that loyal then her.

  

                                                                                             

WHAT DO WE DO IN HOUR OF TRYMPH???

The world has changed . . .
The values have changed . . .  positive or negative . . . it is a debatable issue.
But we cant deny the fact that as man has progressed in the field of science, more & more comforts are enjoyed by us. We have every work under our control & at easy access eg. if we are hot all we have to do is to press a botton, in order to get light - just push a botton, etc. This world has turned into a small global village.

Guys! What we should not forget is that, no doubt we have progressed, but we have lost our moral values.  We are lagging far behind in virtues. Being students, we come across many Trymphs & defeats. It is time, we should take ourselves by the collers & see how we behave when we are bestowed with the trymph.
When v get victory - first of all what we do is to think selfishly. We think that this is all because of our own efforts only. What we forgt here is the humbleness of our creator - our lord, who has taught us not to be proud of our Achievements but to stay humble & thank the lord almighty.Secondly, when we get victory, we forget about the looser's end. We get so much overjoyed in our own trymph that we forget the sufferings of
our opponants. I am not at all suggesting that we should not enjoy our glory . . . But all i am trying to say is that we should also consider the feelings of those who have lost.

Our moral values teach us to be humble & kind, & to be "shukar guzar" to allah almighty for bestowing such a gift. We should not show attitude towards those who atleast tried. We should console them & encourage them to do better next time. We should never forget, that if we have seen glory, we might see the darkness as well. This is the charm of life. Seeing only the bright side of the competition is no good. How can we enjoy the trymph if we have not tasted the bitterness of defeat. It is defeat, that teaches us how to act in glory. When a person remembers his own defeat at the time of Trymph, he never behaves badly & consider the Emotions of others as well. Which is also taught to us by our religion.Thus we can see that it also our religious duty to show respect & honour to those who have fallen. If we do so we are not only converting our foes to friends but also fulfilling the duty assigned to us by our religion.

WHAT SUBSTANCE DO WE HAVE FOR OUR MISBEHAVIOUR???

"ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS"

No doubt . . . If our actions do not telly with our words, the words loose any importance

People do listen to the flowery words like our Politicians now a days. They keep on saying, we'll do this & that. But when the time comes for the implimentation & practical, they are nowhere to b seen.

 Similarly, when we say good things to the people we know or love - there rise expectations. Our acquaintances & the loved ones take us to be good persons. But one wrong action on our part can cause us harm for the rest of our lives. We should b very careful in the choice of our words along with the performance we show with them. They r interlinked.

Sometimes, we misbehave with the persons we know. There may b a lot of causes for our misconduct. We might b irritated on something, angry or hostile towards some issue, etc. Sometimes, our day starts from wrong foot. What ever we do, turns to ashes. Thus causing us to get irritated. Our behaviour throughout the day remains hyper, which leads to misconduct. Sometimes we are scolded by someone's attitude, and in response, show our worst behaviour. but when we get into better mood, & think of how we have behaved, it makes us very ashamed.

We curse ourselves & wish for the time clock to reverse back. But alas! Then there is no need to cry over spilt milk. We try our best first, to comfort ourselves by debating & arguing that what we had done was all because of such & such reason. Half convinced, we try to approach the person whom we have hurt badly. We try to present our case in such a manner, that one must feel sympathy with us & try to logic our behaviour.

If we ourselves are half convinced, i don't know,how can v convince the hurt one. How to b sure whether he is fully convinced or not.

Guys! Lets suppose, we have given reasoning & in response the one we have hurt pure-heartedly accepts it . . . But is it justified?

How & what v feel is our own private matter........what say u? why indulge others in what is so private to us. Our private life is our own business not others. Its not their fault how depressed we look or feel. I think, our inner emotions should only b enjoyed by us alone. We should laugh with our friends & try not to show bad manners, cause they can never b justified!

THE PRESENT MOMENT IS ETERNITY!!!

In the beautiful journey of life every traveler is searching for the Diamond even when they possess the gold in their pockets . . . what to do??

Why is the whitish crystal shinning fades the godliness glittering shine of gold; why is the beauty of gold treated like a dull stone?

The gold in our pocket dignifies our present life while the searching of Diamonds is the consideration of our future life. We people are shaped in such a manner that we want to generate our future life - Diamond - but can’t recognize the importance of gold means ie the present life which we have in our hand!!!

Life is a game of gambling in which we first loose something to get something, similarly when we get too indulged in making our future life, the fear of winning and loosing nourishes in us and snatches the smile of our present life. It isn’t easy for the one to dig out the diamond.After entering a dark coal mine one has to put a lot of effort first to look for it & secondly to make it a shinning crystal.

We all are unaware of our future. We don’t even know if we would be able to take next breath or not. . .whether we would be alive or dead??? Everyone is so much busy in planing for future that they forget to enjoy the beauty and charm of present!!

C’mon guys our life is precious, we get only one chance to live it.... so why ruin the glitter of present life for the sake of future life.... Why not Live every moment to its full !!!

It’s better to enrich our soul and heart with the fate and destiny of the present life and enjoy the colors of rainbow in sky bestowed by the nature because the rainbow iso not long lasting.

Paulo Coelho in his famous book ALEPH indicates the importance of “NOW” by saying these lines:

“In life there is only the present moment, the NOW. Past and future only exists in our mind. The present moment is outside of

time its Eternity”

Wah re FASHION!!!!!!

Is fashion ne aaj ki aurat ko behal kar diya hai. Fashion ki samajh ho ya na ho, ya hum par acha lage ya na lage lekin har soorat me fashion apnana zaroor hai. Fashion hamari zindagi ka lazmi juz ban chukka hai. Har fashion sub par acha nai lagta lekin phir bhi aurtain fashion ki dewani bani ja rahi hoti hain. Har wo fashion k kapre (clothes) jo market me majood hain or ya fashion me hain hamein zaroor lena hai…..chahe wo hum par acha lage ya na lage. Lekin aj ki aurat fashion k haathon majboor hai.

Sub se pehle apne bare me ye dekhna k hum par kia cheez achi lag rahi hai, hum kis andaaz se khoobsoorat lag sakte hain is bat ko bhool jate hain or fashion k peeche bhagne lagte hain. Khawateen ko fashion ka peeche pagal hone me hamare media ka bohat bara hath hai. Hamare dramon me heroin ne jis andaaz k kapre (clothes) or zewar (jewelry) pehne hain agar hum bhi pehne to bilkul us jese lage gain. Ye soch hamari aurat ko bechain rakhti hai k T.V par jo naya ishtihar (ad) chal raha tha kapron (clothes) ka wo jald se jald hamare pas bhi ho.

Fashion hamare under aise ghus (enter) giya hai k hum us k baghar kuch nai sochte. Aisi aisi khawateen (ladies) is andaaz k fashion karti hain k thori der k liye dil or dimagh rukh jata hai or ek minute k liye hum ye sochte hain k fashion in k liye bana hai ya ye fashion k liye.

Ab ap universities ko hi dekh len jin me uniform nai hai agar wahan aisa fashion ho to bat bhi hai lekin jin universities me uniform hai to wahan bhi bechare uniform ko fashion k tor par le lete hain or uniform ka aisi halat kar dete hain k bas sochte hi reh jayen….

Kash k hamari khawateen fashion pe itna zor dene k bajaye agar apni bachiyon ki tarbiyat par zor den to shayad sadgi hamare under dobara wapis a jaye.      

Night of tension

On an unfortunate day I was terribly stuck in different works then at mid of night I got the heart shocking news of that the deadline of my final assignment is the very next day. Hell!!!! I’m just over here to work like a jerk. Heaven save me. Now there are about 100 slides to be prepared and just one night… At 6:00 am when my assignment was about to finish the light gone!!! I was not able to save my work. These crap workers of K.E.S.C don’t have anything to do except disturbing others! Trying our patience!! Now how the hell I will be able to submit my assignment?? God help me!!! These bastards are of no use just ruining the country nothing else!! On the other hand teachers don’t listen to the problems of the students and not accepts our excuses!! Huhhh!!! They think we all are just passing time and making fun it’s not the truth... when system is going to be change?? Is anyone noticing me??? Nooooo… no one is here to listen!! Go to hell I am not going to do anything. I‘ll sleep till late in the morning!!! 

Zardari’s Visit to Ajmer bestows $1 million

Pakistan’s President Asif Ali Zardari offered prayers at the Dargah of Khwaja Moinuddin Chishti in Ajmer Sharif after seven years. His last visit to the shrine was with his late wife Benazir Bhutto in 2005.  He arrived on Sunday at 4 pm after having lunch with Indian Premier Manmohan Singh and stayed at the shrine for around 20 minutes under the absolute security of about 3000 Indian Policemen. The shrine was closed for the visitors after noon and the whole location was safeguarded by setting colorful tents all around to cover his movement. The President had 44 members of the delegation with him counting his 23 year old son Bilawal Bhutto Zardari.

Mr. Zardari with his usual cheery persona entered the shrine in Blue Shalwar Kameez with Sindhi ‘Ajrak’ and turban, waving hands to the local people. He offered a 42 square meter long red ‘chadar’ and floral accolades at the Dargah whereas Bilawal offered a green one. He was overjoyed and prayed for the entire mankind.

He termed his gratitude as incomprehensible and blissful. So as a good will shrug he lavishly made a contribution of one million dollars which becomes 90,588,640 Pakistani rupees after conversion. It was indeed an ecstatic trip for him because after such stained relationships with the neighboring country who could think him giving such a sumptuous amount as just a donation. Especially, just after the demand of alleged mastermind of Mumbai attacks, Hafiz Muhammad Saeed from the Indian side, against whom no evidence has yet been provided.

There are severe issues yet to be settled with the country that has proven itself as a perfect example to be called as ‘mother of democracy’, for instance Kashmir, Siachen, 26/11 Mumbai terrorist attacks and illegal intervention of Indian Army in Pakistan’s largest province Balochistan.

The Dargah administration asserted that, so far, this was the highest ever offering by any Pakistani President. As per the sources, previously President Zia Ul Haq had given Rs7 lakh whereas General Parvez Musharaff had presented Rs10 lakh.

In this crucial time when Pakistan’s more than 40 percent population lives below the poverty line and the power shortage is reaching to the sky, not forgetting to mention the rocking price hike of CNG and Petrol, our President’s centre of attention became a Holy Shrine in India whereas the deteriorating conditions of our local shrines is an open secret.

We just hope he remembers his sense of belonging to a country battling for extremism and hunger. His, very own people who are striving hard each day to get their livelihood. May be a small contribution creates a big difference in their lives. 

Hum “kyun” ka lafz istimal karte hain

“Kyun” is lafz me aisa kia hai jo hum bar bar istimal karte hain. Hamari koi bat is k bagher shuru nai hoti. Har bat pe “kyun” karna hamari aadat (habit) ban gaye hai. Jese ye kyun hua? Ye bat hui to kyun hui? Mere sath hi kyun hua?

Har bar apni baton me “kyun” ka lafz shamil karna achi baat nai hai……ho sakta hai is me Allah ki raza shamil ho lekin hum bas yehi kehte hain k kyun hua or isse aisa nai hona chaye tha. Allah jo karta hai hamare ache k liye karta hai.

Kabhi hum ne socha jo hota hai acha k liye hota hai or is me hamari bhaliye hai lekin hum har bar apni qismat ko ilzam lagate rehte hain ya choti choti baton pe rote rehte hain or na shukari karte rehte hain….ye nai sochte k ye sab Allah ki taraf se hua hai.

“Kyun” ka lafz hamari zindagi me is had tak shamil ho giya hai k hum Allah ka shukar ada karna bhool gaye hain. Hum hamesha wohi cheezon ko yad karte hain jis ki wajah se hum dukhi hue hon kabhi un cheezon ko yad nai karte jis ki wajah se hamein khushi mili ho. Kabhi kabhi kisi ki choti se baat apko kis had tak khush kar deti hai apko pata bhi nai chalta lekin hum dosron ko ilzam lagte rehte hain or is baat pe bhi “kyun” shuru kar dete hain.

Agar hum har waqt choti se choti khushi pe Allah ka shukar ada karen to Allah bhi khush hon ge hum se or hamare dil ko bhi sukoon mile ga or zindagi bhi assan (easy) ho jayegi.

A PAGE FROM MY DIARY…

A prince charming on a white horse coming towards me… a dream of almost every other girl!! But as far as my dreams are concerned they had a slight different direction… I believe in destiny… I was sure that the Allah Almighty has chosen someone for me… somewhere someone is just for me…!! I didn’t allow my heart to get involved with anyone as it was my fate that the God’s choice for me would be much better as compared to my own. I was curious to know the Almighty’s preference for me… And finally the answer from God... the blessing from God... the love from God came in front of me on the day of my engagement…

At first I was really nervous… how could I give my heart... my soul... my trust to a man whom I hardly know?? How would I’ll become comfortable or manage things with a stranger?? But after having a talk with him I realized he is not a stranger… he is my soul mate… the one on whom I can trust… the one on whom I can depend… the one who’ll be part of my every happiness and sadness…

I thanked Almighty a billion times for bestowing such a blessing on me… I wanted my partner to be a sweet one… who treats me like her princess… who loves me from the core of heart… who walks by my side in every situation… who is loyal to his relation… who accept and love me the way I am… After negotiating and distinguishing him I actually realized that I am a fortunate one… Shukar Alhumdulillah!! All my worries… my tensions… my confusions evaporated after knowing him…

Now a serene and pleasant air is surrounding me… flowers are dancing… trees are singing… wind is whistling… seems like they all are teasing me… God!! Such an inept thought of mine…!! Ohh and why not..??? People call me immature… they call me fun-loving… they call me enthusiastic… but no matter what, I am loving itt…!!!

Ungrateful To Some Teachers...!!!

Life - a very lively experienced word. Everyone has gone into it's depth... The chapters in the story of life possess different characters.. The characters who play their part and go on with their own life.. leaving behind something you can't name it... 

I too affront different people. It is nice and wise to achieve something from someone and i did exactly the same... I've learned in a unique way and unappreciative to the one's who taught me...!! I am pretty sure you have been blessed with such people around... The people who are like a fire.. The one who could burn you... bring the hell out of you... but still no matter what, you can make a way to get better...!! Some of these bitter crunches roaming around in my head;

• I know a woman who is overall good but there's something terribly rude of her... She can't digest her food without taunting.. Without having a clue that her words are not less then an acid.. She take most of the things negatively even when someone's intention is right - She taught me how to be nice and sweet... She taught me i shouldn't hurt anyone through my words as such words left deep scars in the heart...
• There's a friend of mine whose tagline is "Seedhi Baat No Baqwas" literally!! He is deadly straightforward!! And moody to the peak!!! One minute you'll be the one who is appreciated by him.. the one who'll be treated like a best friend to him and the very next moment he will drag you down!! You are not more then a trash!! he damn care what anyone else thinks!! Sometimes i feel like i would love to throttle him!! But can't help it, after all he's my friend - He taught me to value precious relations.. He actually taught me what the word "Piss off" means.. He taught me there's nothing good in being like a rod with others...
• A neighbor i barely know she prefers to be sad... Really!!! She'll find a reason and ill keep crying on that, in a way or other curses life... She's the one with no hope... no enthusiasm for anything - She taught me how to thank Allah Almighty for everything... C'mon get a life there are so many who are praying to stay alive... ask the one who is suffering from a deadly disease!! Se taught me to live life with content and satisfaction...
• Me, myself and I..!!! The egoistic words!! World is full of them...!! It's hard to pick up a single person with such a drastic quality... Such people are blind and can only see their own selves! They don't give a damn about anyone or anything - They taught me how to be social.. how to observe things from other's perspective.. how to keep me aside and think for the other's sake...

This list will go on and would take my whole day if i kept writing... The thing is i have learnt silence from the talkative... toleration from the intolerant... humbleness from the proud... kindness from the unkind; yet strange, I am ungrateful to these teachers....

Global Warming

Our earth is a gift of God. There are many weathers which we enjoy. But now we are facing many problems created by us. The main problem today which is very critical is global warming. Through out the year every corner of the earth has to face some kind of changes in the weather. This is all because of the pollution which the mankind produced to survive. The chemical composition of the atmosphere has changed significantly. Those countries which have cold weather most of the time how becoming colder and those countries which have hot weather becoming hotter. Weather has become more extreme.

In these few days, America’s facing many Tsunamis and floods which are very alarming. In Europe, the temperature becomes 25 C and simultaneously having heavy rainfall. All these changes vary from county to country. The pollution, we created in any form is harmful to our earth.

Every country that has the ability to become a super power experimenting the nuclear weapons which is not only affecting our earth but also the core of the earth. Inside the earth having the same problem which is very dangerous to the life on the earth.

This climate change is effecting our economy and health in different ways which is very alarming. But we have to solve this problem on large scale. We all have to unite and make sure that the solutions we trying to impose sincerely make our earth a better place to live.

Emergence of a great Leader!!

22nd June 1966: After resigning from Ayub khan’s cabinet as a foreign minister Bhutto sahib decided to go to Lahore by train. He had no proper idea what he was supposed to do, except that he has quit Ayub’s regime. What troubling him now was whether it was the end of his political career or something is going to be happened, but what was it nobody knew not even him. The journey was pretty calm and peaceful He was unaware of the climax of his life waiting for him, the good fortune was knocking on his door.

When the train reached Jhelum a big noise waked him up it was the clamor of the crowd waiting for him on the station and most of them were students when Bhutto reached the gate of the rail car the entire place echoed with “Zulfiqar Ali bhutto Zindabad”. That was the time when people were dying to see the enchanting personality of Bhutto those were the overwhelming moments the history was being written. From Jehlum to Lahore there was bulk of students in every station waiting for him to support him to tell that whatever circumstances come we are with you.

 Whenever Bhutto Sahib comes back to his compound after meeting his supporters a TT informs him that the crowd has been waiting for him even since when he started the journey from Pindi. The time duration of the ride from Pindi to Lahore is of six hours but it took that train a day to reach Lahore and when the train arrived at Lahore seventy thousand people received him that was the biggest and warmest welcome ever!!

This journey was the one which made Bhutto sahib the Leader, the revolutionist, the incredible, Quaid e Awaam Leader of the Nation. It is considered as an emerging moment of him and then the charisma of Bhutto started spread everywhere, in a small span of time he gained a rapid support. Whatever He says people used to listen because He was their men, their voice their leader. That is how the leaders are made by deeds not by words. The much time Bhutto sahib lived he lived for his men his country. People loved him not because he was stalwart, wealthy handsome but He was the one who gave them Roti, Kapra or Makan.

This nation needs nothing but food, shelter and clothing. If you only give us these basic necessities you can easily conquer our hearts you can rule. Bhutto is the triumph card which is still used by Pakistan People Party that he is not even here anymore but his legacy wins PPP the mandate to rule.

But one should remember that no matter what you do, the time will come when the suppressed will scream!! The time will come when this nation will gather in every corner of the country and demand that provide us Roti Kapra or Makaan ager Bhutto zinda hai tou!!

Hum Kitabon Se Itna Door Kyun?

Ek dor tha jab log apna waqt guzarne k liye kitabon ka sahara liya karte the. Jab bare log kehte the k kitaben insane ki behtreen dost hoti hain. Magar waqt guzarne k sath ye shoq bhi logo ka ahista ahista khatam ho giya. Ab log kitaben sirf apni library mein rakh kar bhool jate hain. Pehle log kitabon ko tuhfe (gifts) k tor par bhi ek dosre ko diya karte the magar ab ye dastoor bhi khatam ho giya hai.

Aj kal k bache computer par zayada waqt guzarte hain un k khel (games) bhi computer tak hi mehdood ho gaye hain. Hum ne apne apko kitabon se bohat door kar liya hai. Kyon hum kitabon se dobara dosti nahi kar lete. Jitna waqt hum idhar udhar ki khabrien nikalne me lage rehte hain thori koshish se dobara kitabon ko apni zindagi ka hissa bana sakte hain.

Kitabon se insane ka zehn khulta hai. Wo kitaben jin me tareekh majood hai. Wo hamare ilm me kis hud tak izafa karsakhti hain. Waqt guzarne ka behtreen zarya kabhi kitab hoti thi.

Kitab se insane ki dosti bohat purani hai. Aj kal ki nasal internet k zarye kam waqt me matlab ki maloomat hasil kar lete hain. Chahe tareekh ho ya safarname, chahe aapbeeti ho ya shaariri. Insane ki maloomat ka behtreen zarya yehi kitaben hoti thi.

Agar hum kitabon se isi tarah door rahe to wo waqt door nai jab kitaben sirf library ki zeenat reh jayengi.

TO … DEAR FARAZ ALI… I don’t know if you know me much or not, but Faraz Ali is always known to me as one of kind and helpful friend of my brother. Your one good deed, to take my father to hospital when there was no body to help us out, made me and my family thankful of yours forever. Waking up in the morning with these words “Mariam Faraz Mamo ki death hogai” was really shocking and unbelievable…. For the moment I got out of my mind and all your memories came in flashback… I still remember when I was in class 5, your two swans were always there in our school garden and I use to love teasing them… Every boy in Mohallah calling you Mamo specially Zaini, my little sister who was too much attached with you… Bhai often talked to me about your hobby and love for animals, at time Eid-Ul-Azha, if one uses to have an intolerable bull so the only option left for them was to call out Faraz Mamo... But Alas…! It’s proved today, good people leave early…. It was shocking to here that you have lost your life in a car accident with your three best friends….. Among which you three lost your precious life and the unlucky four is paralyzed now…. My brother’s eyes were filled with tears while telling us about it with words…” Ami abhi rat 1 bajae t m k gaya tha mujse phir abhi kese...” Your face book profile is filled with prayers and love for you from all beloved friends…. syed Tahir Ali says..” Faraz bro, tere jesa dost naseeb walo KO milta hain …” Syed Shahabaz says...” if tears could build a staircase and memories a path… I would walk right up to heaven and bring you back home again... For sometime there are no words … I just can’t believe that you are no more I this world but your memories will always beside me. You were the best friend one could have... Rest in peace my friend…” and last but not eh least… my little sister Zainab ...” Api ab wo bhi hamare abu k pas chale gae haina … apko yad haina wo mujy jab bhi apne sath market lai ka I jate thai to mujhy buaht cheezai dilate thai…” I have no words to define the loss we have…. But here are simple words form ur friends for you… “ To Juda hoa,per teri yad juda na hoi, tanhaiyan lag lag k roi, abhi to buhat lamba safar sath tae karna tha hum nai, abhi is moor p alwida na kehna that um nai….. “ MAY YOUR SOUL REST IN PEACE…AAMEEN?”

A STUDENT OF MANKIND!!!

What does this title mean???

 I know this question is raising in everyone's mind.....

Read it; surely the mystery will b revealed soon!!!

We human, the creatures of MUD arrive in this fast and furious world as a BABY which is just like a new computer hard disk containing zero data at the beginning, but as the time flies; the hard disk starts storing data which is input by its users. Similarly, different things happen in our life .When we arrive as a baby in this world &open our virgin eyes, we have zero data available. But as the hours click by we start storing data by observing the performances of others influencing directly or indirectly us. For an instance, the action of catching something from our small hands; the baby language or as v may call “tote phote alfaz” which we learn, or the "walk" . . .  Opps!! I mean the crawling which we do, are the lessons of the people who surround us..............

The learning process in human life starts from one’s birth and ends with his death...........look around, all the people present in our life can teach us something .Everyone in this world passes through this learning process whether it is the learning of trivial things or the learning of extremely big & important matters like after a breakup (big one!! not easy to do ..... anyways jokes apart back to the topic:p) . It doesn’t matter what others teach us, the basic thing which is need to get in focus is the learning which we get as a Student from others....

What I am trying to convey is the process of learning which we get from others and if we look from this prospect we all are students somehow; I know some learners are reading this too ... be all I am trying to say is that .......... throughout our lives we learn in one manner or other . . .  thus proving to b students, & the people who teach us are our teachers. The mankind keeps us its student till we depart. It is well said that:

“INSAN HI INSAN KO SIKHATA  HEY "

We learn the feelings of love from our relations like teachers, may be parents ,siblings or the loved ones ; learn fear from our looters,  mobile snatchers ,  target killers etc etc..... we can’t calculate from measuring balance how much we learn from others . . . . .but we are learning through & through.  Now look deep inside urself and find out what lessons did u get as a student from others???

Become a good student of mankind....learn every lesson by heart which is being taught to u.... it just requires a little thirst  of learning and observation...it wouldn’t cause you any harm but surely will benefit you.

Sarah Caldwell once said:

“Learn everything u can, anytime u can, from anyone u can. There   will always come a time when you will be grateful you did."