21 April 2012

Boys V/S Girls




Boys are more trust worthy and loyal then girls when it comes to relationship, that is what I used to think years back, that statement of mine was pretty confused being a girl and I have experienced many debates on this hot topic in my circle of friends. That was probably my childhood and immaturity which made me stern on my view point, that was perhaps the time when you are happy with my own assumptions and do not listen to anybody.

But now I think just because I had seen a couple of examples of my male friends who were really loyal with their companions and they could not make up after break up with anybody else are really very insufficient example to cater the whole male fraternity. These two examples are nothing when on the other end you have infinite examples of loyalty I realized. For instance, if I take an in-depth review of my own life I have many examples, Example of a sister who has always been there in every hurdle of my life, defending me no matter with whom I am confronting .Whose shoulder has been a real towel to wipe my tears. Moreover example of my friends who kept my things, lend me money in rainy days, kept my secrets. They have sobbed with me in bad times and cherished the joy of my life. And if these examples are not enough to change my view then there is my mother the ultimate source of my life, the real strength of mine, the life to me.

The point is my mother, my sister, my friends are all women and when they all have been so loyal and pure in these relationships then how can it be possible that \\She// won’t be the same in the most precious, beautiful and special relation of her life. Have not I witnessed her tears when she cried for him, have not I seen how desperate she was, how sincere she was to him then how difficult it would have been for her to break it all up. There must have been a strong reason that she stepped back to have the live she always wished. 

The reason is of dignity that she does not have to look only one feeling, she has to look her family her parents her father, her brothers, they had sentiments too for her then how can she betray all of them just to be loyal to one person? And if she even did so, after even all that would she be considered a loyal person probably not!! So she has not dumped him, she just endured  So if she has left him due to these circumstances then I firmly believe that no other creature can be that loyal then her.
  

                                                                                             

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