WHAT SUBSTANCE DO WE HAVE FOR OUR MISBEHAVIOUR???

"ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS"

No doubt . . . If our actions do not telly with our words, the words loose any importance

People do listen to the flowery words like our Politicians now a days. They keep on saying, we'll do this & that. But when the time comes for the implimentation & practical, they are nowhere to b seen.

 Similarly, when we say good things to the people we know or love - there rise expectations. Our acquaintances & the loved ones take us to be good persons. But one wrong action on our part can cause us harm for the rest of our lives. We should b very careful in the choice of our words along with the performance we show with them. They r interlinked.

Sometimes, we misbehave with the persons we know. There may b a lot of causes for our misconduct. We might b irritated on something, angry or hostile towards some issue, etc. Sometimes, our day starts from wrong foot. What ever we do, turns to ashes. Thus causing us to get irritated. Our behaviour throughout the day remains hyper, which leads to misconduct. Sometimes we are scolded by someone's attitude, and in response, show our worst behaviour. but when we get into better mood, & think of how we have behaved, it makes us very ashamed.

We curse ourselves & wish for the time clock to reverse back. But alas! Then there is no need to cry over spilt milk. We try our best first, to comfort ourselves by debating & arguing that what we had done was all because of such & such reason. Half convinced, we try to approach the person whom we have hurt badly. We try to present our case in such a manner, that one must feel sympathy with us & try to logic our behaviour.

If we ourselves are half convinced, i don't know,how can v convince the hurt one. How to b sure whether he is fully convinced or not.

Guys! Lets suppose, we have given reasoning & in response the one we have hurt pure-heartedly accepts it . . . But is it justified?

How & what v feel is our own private matter........what say u? why indulge others in what is so private to us. Our private life is our own business not others. Its not their fault how depressed we look or feel. I think, our inner emotions should only b enjoyed by us alone. We should laugh with our friends & try not to show bad manners, cause they can never b justified!