12 March 2012

UNFATHOMABLE SEA OF RELATIONS!!!


WILLIAM SHAKESPEARE said:
“All the world is a stage, and all the men and women merely players: They have their exits and their entrance”
 The ASHRAF UL MAKHLOKAT (Humans) have no clue when, where, why and how they are going to perform the role which is scripted by Almighty Allah to them. No one knows what role is assigned to him in this world-stage. They have no idea of their time of arrival or departure, or the act    they’ll perform in future.
When a new character enters….. One can’t judge how much attention he would grab, whom he’ll meet or develop relations with others. The true picture appears with the passage of time.
It’s doesn’t sound easy to let the heart door open for a new stranger, but we HUMANS have a WELCOMING nature. We hesitate to let sum1 enter in our life, but once sum1 enters after resistance we not only welcomed them but also accept their role in our life. We are connected with them through the bonds of relations. These relations are easy to make, more easy to break but hard to maintain as they demand compromise and adjustments. Thus we can say that it is the most difficult job to keep our relations beating ………… like in our daily routine we have to perform different tasks and various roles !!!!!
Maintaining relations is harder …. In order to keep them we have to walk a long way, have to pass obstacles, bear the heated sun rays and freezing atmosphere, fight with the starvation or thrust. Sometimes these hardships lead us on the edge of breaking our relationship but we try to fight it back and retain them so we can move forward distances.
No matter how hard the hurricane or tsunami tries to break the relation wall, we have to strengthen it like a rock or mountain which can stand any natural disaster. It is only death that can break them apart!!!
Relations are the blessing of Allah Almighty which he has bestowed upon us to make us understand the feelings and emotions. We should realize how much relation is important for us …Imagine One’s life without relation, you will find that u don’t have any purpose to live...your life becomes a dark and bleak place which is missing every gloom and glory of light. We should never try to break relation or say good bye to any of them. When we hook ourselves to any, we should not search for the exit path.........
We should try to respect every attained or earned relation because they are the diamond opps!!
In the world-stage- the role and character of each actor is different but they all perform to entertain us…..So we should try to be a little interactive and enjoy every performance with them!! We should Laugh with them, Cry with them, or even Dance with them.........  but shouldn’t leave the theater until the show is over!!!

23 comments:

  1. Laugh or cry tu theek hai per dance nahi :P welcoming nature wali baat ghour se parho...baqi sub set likha hai... :)

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    1. BY DANCE . . . I THINK SHE MEANS THE ACTIONS PERFORMED BY THE PLAYERS (HUMANS). SHE DOES NOT MEAN TO DANCE IN THE IN ACTUAL.

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  2. We should Laugh with them, Cry with them, or even Dance with them.....simple but very deep :)...awesome lines :)...truly appreciable...

    ALLAH bless You Always.

    Regards
    Madiha Kaiser.

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  3. sher arz hai
    جو رعنائی نگاہوں کے لئے فردوسِ جلوہ ہے
    لباسِ مفلسی میں کتنی بے قیمت نظر آتی
    یہاں تو جاذبیت بھی ہے دولت ہی کی پروردہ
    یہ لڑکی فاقہ کش ہوتی تو بدصورت نظر آتی

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    1. wahh wahh joun alea..one of my favourite poets.can u plz upload soe more verses of jaun alea??

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    2. اب میں نہیں رہا ہوں کسی بھی گمان کا
      اے میرے کفر ، اے مرے ایمان الوداع
      جون ایلیا

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  4. Nice one...
    Realistically portrayed by words..

    My prayers and wishes for you.

    Regards,
    Mussammah khan

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  5. hmmmmm gud 1
    Best wishes for future

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  6. Muhammad Khizer Iftikhar13 March 2012 at 11:52

    Nyce review on Relationships......should be kept alive......infact this gives a chance to find and meet really nyce people around the globe. Which eventually become dear freinds to us!

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  7. Another one


    ہیں بے طور یہ لوگ تمام
    ان کے سانچہ میں نہ ڈھلو
    میں بھی یہاں سے بھاگ چلوں
    تم بھی یہاں سے بھاگ چلو
    جون ایلیا

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  8. again another good exapmle how jaun sees the life and the believes,and how one is realy confused and how difficult it is to find the right path...thanks for sharing my favorite poet's verses;)

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    1. Totally agreed boss. Its really very difficult so find the real path in this materialistic and Hippocratic religious world.

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    2. things are never difficult, its man who makes them difficult.
      ALLAH Almighty have made things easier, we people who dont want to obey, just say theocrates have made it difficult. Why dont we make it easier for others.

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  9. yeah,religions seems to be some sort of occupied by some self portraied class of theocracy ,all have their own interpretation leading one to no where then the dizzy world of confusion..

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  10. Jahanzeib Abbas13 March 2012 at 13:00

    thats a good blog:) but soem ppl think that out of mind is out of sight ..tquite a good approach too:)

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  11. The fundamental glue that holds any relationship together is trust.

    Brian Tracy

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  12. A very Comprehensive and Precis , up to the mark and meaningful !

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  13. Thats realyy nice....shadab u did a really good job. i like all ur blogs but this one is different and nicely written :)

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  14. Xlent and pure eastern family analysis... I agree with ur words .....
    Never b reluctent in making any sacrifice to keep a relation .... sooner or later u recieve its worth .... Remember its nt the ppl who rewarded ur virtue its only ALLAH who gives the reward ....
    dnt trust ppl trust ALLAH n keep going with good deeds

    Regards,
    Hina Kayani

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  15. shadab everybody gave deir comments on wht you write..but i must say dat da topic u select was awesum..but definalty da way u write is really commendable...

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  16. AS EXPECTED . . . YOUR BLOG ONCE AGAIN CAPTURED MY ATTENTION. YOUR IDEAS R GREAT , YOUR EXAMPLES ARE UNIQUE & WHEN BLENDED WITH EXPRESSIONS PRODUCE A COMPLETE & COPREHENSIVE WORK. EXCELLENT WORK. YOUR WORK PREDICTS OF YOUR BRIGHT FUTURE.
    KEEP UP THE GOOD & THOUGHT PROVOKING WORK "BACHA". LOOKING FORWARD FOR MORE FROM YOU

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